Well, my ex and I were living together and having issues sohe proposed that we have a baby. Even saying no I did nothing to stop pregnancy... now the baby is 10 months old... He is arround the baby thus me and but has been living away since I was 4 months pregnant , Now only now he says now only now he tells me he is been dating this ugly (he admitted it ) girl for like a little over a year and that he has proposed to her during Christmas... The guy loves me i can see it in his eyes ... I would move mountains to have him back... I honestely almost dont believe that he is even thinking of marrying that ugly woman.... isnt this tooo fast toooo soooooooooon for him to be thinking of marrying someone else?
2007-01-22 09:10:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
yea, i guess so b ut im just a teen so im not even thinking about that
2007-01-22 09:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My brother's ex was in the same situation. They broke up, she wanted him back, and he married someone else.
No good can come of you pining after someone who has been dating someone else for a year. Even if he were to come back, would you trust him? Do you think that he has treated you right? Has he respected you? And most importantly, if he loved you, would he be proposing to another woman?
Let him live his life and get on with yours. Don't analyze his every move or you may end up being miserable while he's off married to someone else.
2007-01-22 14:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by Galoshes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One year is a lot of time to be with someone. I know people who have been together for 50 years and they only knew each other for 3 days. If you really want him back, tell him. My sisters mother-in-law got her husband like that. Tell him, "I would move mountains to have you back." The worst that could happen is you are back where you started and you know where you stand. Best of all, you wouldn't have doubt as to what he wanted.
2007-01-22 09:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by Elise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok..hate to be the bearer of bad news, but....HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU! If he loved you, he would 1) no tbe sleeping with other women 2) proposing marriage to other women 3) he would still be with you.....key word is that still be with you. He is using you to no end. You are being a doormat. DO NOT LET THIS HAPPEN! You are better than that and do not need a man to make you whole.
2007-01-22 10:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is way too soon to be thinking about marriage. I would say give it a couple more years or months at least to where you have lived with the person before truly saying you want to get married to them.
2007-01-22 09:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by chula_rica21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? It's really his decision. If he feels like he wants to mess his life up by proposing to a girl he thinks is right for him, then let him. If he really loves you, he'll come around.
2007-01-22 09:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by *KrazyBeautiful* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not. It would appear that he is not in love with you. And even if the girl is ugly looking he must have found her inner beauty. He asked her to marry him not you.
But if he wants to see the child you will have to deal with that, because it is his right to see the child.
2007-01-22 09:31:23 · answer #7 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I was propose to in less then a year... but you need to focus on you and your baby. Move on and get rid of loser, who cares what his girlfriend looks like- you don't need any of it.
Straighten out your life and keep moving forward. You don't need this sh*t in your life.
2007-01-22 09:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have other issues going on than worrying about if your BF is moving too fast with his 2nd GF. You need a new man, this one isn't any good.
Oh and no, it's not too fast.
2007-01-22 09:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok honey... its not really... and even if it is... if he's set on it, and she is too there really isnt anything you could do is there... but if he's wanting you back and if he cares for you.... why was she w/ her in the first place? a better question is why did he ax her to marry him? in fact he shouldnt even be thinking of marrying anyone else but you, your his baby's mama dammit!!!
2007-01-22 09:23:00 · answer #10 · answered by Paris, je t'aime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's up to him really.........if he wants to be with her then you should keep your relationship as the mother and father or the baby. it's their choice to split up, if he's not happy he'll leave but don't push him to do it - it's not fair.
2007-01-22 09:17:01 · answer #11 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋