this morning i got an invitation from my friend(evite..email invitation)...she's inviting me on her daughter's bday...but the problem is from that invitation you'll know who's invited and comfirm their invitation...actually one of them was my first love(his married anyways).
last yr me and his wife got to a argument...cuz maybe she thought i want my ex back...little info about me and my ex..i'm the one who initiated the break cuz he actually push me while we were fighting and thats it... i end the our relationship...bcuz i dont want guys to be harming me..
i start hiding from him...actually she's a BIG REBOUND...LOL
also that time too everytime my ex is not w/her she called me and ask for him...she even cry to dead for him...lol
now my dilemma is should i attend or just tell my friend i cant and just i will just give my gift for her daughter...beside i dont wanna have any drama...
the weird part last night he was on my dream....
YES OR NO..PLS HELP???? THANKS
2007-01-22 09:08:35 · 10 answers · asked by angel 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why should u be the one hiding from him??? hes the lil b*tch that raised his hand up to a lady!!! u should go to the party and not give a damn bout him or his girl! u shouldnt have to be hiding or missing out on stuff just cuz hes gonna be there. if his girl cant trust her man, then thats her problem not yours!
2007-01-22 09:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by oc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you do not go. After all, what is the point in provoking a situation that can only be made into something it is not by this guy's wife?
It's not like this is your friend's own birthday and I'm sure she will understand if you explain that you can do without the hassle. If she's any sort of friend, she will be fine with that.
You make out that this woman is a little "nutty" with her phone calls and such and I don't know if you or he has given her any reason to think something is going on between you and her husband. If there is nothing to this, you must keep the high ground and give her nothing on which to base allegations.
My other suggestion is that you stop seeing this guy completely. You say you split with him (and then you mention he was in your dream) so why do you have anything to do with him? If you simply have mutual friends, you should discuss the situation with them and ask them not to invite the both of you to the same event in future.
2007-01-22 09:21:37 · answer #2 · answered by Chris W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with a date if you can. If not, thats ok, hang out with people you know. Always be aware of where these two are at all times and just be somewhere else. Dont avoid the party just because they will be there. Show that you are the bigger person by just ignoring them. If she (or they) try to start something with you, just say "you know, this really isnt the time or the place for this," and walk away. (you will look like the better person for saying that and walking away, and they will look like turds for trying to start something at a kids bday party) good luck - dont let anyone ruin a friendship!
2007-01-22 09:20:02 · answer #3 · answered by Jmerph 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have been arguing with this woman .... not sure... what to tell you.... if you go try to stay away from an argument and that is it... really I am confused but dont you stop living your life because of them ....
2007-01-22 09:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go. Ignoring them or hiding won't make things better. You should just try to clear things up!
2007-01-22 09:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by Sabrina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your that worried about it just send a gift and don't go.
2007-01-22 09:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by Fletcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are crazy and go get some mental help, instead of going to the party.....
2007-01-22 09:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should go. If he is upset that is his problem, NOT you. Have fun, he will notice you and probaly will avoid you. then you have nothing to worry about.
2007-01-22 09:14:47 · answer #8 · answered by Mad 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to the party and just be cool.
2007-01-22 09:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-01-22 09:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋