I've been friends with this guy since school started and we've talked a little bit here and there. However, this past weekend we were talking online and he said that he wanted to see me later that night, and after going to a few parties, I gave him a call pretty late and we hung out. We talked for most of the time, but when I left, he kissed me.
We've talked a little bit since then, and I'd like to see where this can go, but how should I handle this situation?
What should I do to keep this guy interested?
Thanks for your time and help.
2007-01-22 09:05:22 · 8 answers · asked by bosox.girl23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him that you really liked spending time with him the other night and you want to do it again sometime
that should pretty much let him know your interested and want to continue things
sometimes you just need to be really obvious with guys because they dont seem to pick up hints
2007-01-22 09:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by sparkles_x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep doing what your doing, chat it up and once and awhile suggest grabing a bite to eat after class, or starting talking about movies or something, and if you both are interested in seeing a new movie why dont you suggest you see it together. You'll find out alot of times the guy is too shy or scared to ask you out because of fear of getting rejected. Also keeping it casual, like saying lets go grab a bite, other then being like "you want to go out to dinner tommorrow nite" will make him feel like its casual and there is no pressure, the pressure is what usually scares guys...
2007-01-22 17:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes you for YOU.To keep him interested just keep on being you show interest in him his thoughts feelings and opinions.Speak yours out loud create small interesting debates learn about each other.To see where this could go you gotta start by being YOU first and foremost and grow with him while you're together.HIm being HIM will teach you new perspectives and give you new opinions on new things and vice versa.Those are important things that help create a path when you want to see where it can lead and how to keep him interested.Always keep a man on his toes and guessing if you find you're becoming predictable then its time to change things up:)
Good Luck Hun I Wish You Well & Happiness,
M.G
2007-01-22 17:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by Malia G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, tell him. So many people wait to long and play games that they lose 'the one'. Don't make this mistake. Ask him what the kiss meant. If he just says he was drunk, you'll know. If you want him to stay interested, and he says he was drunk, tell him you really enjoyed the kiss and ask if there is a chance you could try a relationship. The worst thing that could happen is he says no, and you'll know where you stand.
2007-01-22 17:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by Elise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep communicating with him either by i.m ing or email or phone dont lead him on though if you like him and want a relationship stay in touch with him if your not ready for a relationship rell him and just be friends..........ps remember HE 'S A GUY he might be after something more than a kiss
2007-01-22 17:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by Bruce B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with him, tell him you like to spend time with him and maybe see if one of you can go over the the other's house maybe watch a movie
2007-01-22 17:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang out with him more. hold his hand. let him know you're interested. and if the kissing is consistent, and the calls---then you know you've got him
2007-01-22 17:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by Krissi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be your self dont try too impress him
2007-01-22 17:10:34 · answer #8 · answered by banana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋