what type of things should i talk about if im meeting a girl for the first time?

Answer 1

ask her what sports she likes to do, or her favourite things...

Answer 2

You should talk very little. Let the girl do all the talking. Ask her questions and actually make it look like you care and your listening. Girls love to talk and when they go home that evening (or the next morning) they will think of what a great time they had because they found someone they could connect to.

Ask about everything, really find out about the person.

Answer 3

the first thing you need to ask yourself is:
what kind of person are you? are you a shy one or not? this will effect on how you SHOULD be talking and also on what you should be talking about.

for shy guys:
try looking her in the eyes and try talking fluently. remember fluently.

for not so shy guys:
again look her in the eye and try to remember that you are having a conversation with her meaning that you should not be the one with all the talking, try to show her that you are a big person, that you appreciate her.

as for what you could talk about:
I would say that you can talk about anything, but you would not believe that. ha. so, I guess you can try to make a conversation about where she comes from, or where she lives, what her favorite music is, what her favorite food is. the part that you should remember is that whatever you decide to talk about with her, be sure that you are not to 'yes, I agree' with her, tell her your oppinion about it, even if you dont agree with her, this will give her the impression that you really care about what she thinks and therefore makes you a good person.

hope that helped.

Answer 4

People like to talk about themselves. Ask her about her life. She will think you are interested and unselfish since you are not just talking about yourself. Don't overdo it though or else she might think you are giving her the 3rd degree. Some things to talk about could be favourite music/group, school/work, hobbies/interests . . . Compliment her hair, clothes . . . women take pride and a long time to look good. Good luck.

Answer 5

Just have fun, don't talk about to much personal stuff. A first date is just a chance to see if you can have fun together. Just relax and be yourself.

Whatever you do, do not talk about ex's, or any personal problems. Just keep everything upbeat. If the date starts talking about the taboos, I would suggest running away.

Answer 6

talk about yourself and ask her some of the same questions. For instance... if you share about your favorite type of music & group. Ask what is her's and why. Or your favorite food and why, ask her about her's.

A great opener would be to tell her that you tapped this forum & maybee even print out some of this stuff, perhaps you two will laugh about some of the silly answers people give you.

It might open for her to ask you why you did this. Share honestly.

Usually too . . . . girls know that we boys aren't as talky, so let her ask you & you give her the follow up questions.

Answer 7

I think its good to ask her ;
where you are from?
Are you working or a student?
What is that and what do you do? (this is linked to the working or student question)
What kind of things she into, like music, films, ect?

Answer 8

It all depends on how old you are. Music would be the most likely for all ages. As you get older the skies the limit.

Answer 9

Mabey what some of her hobbies are.. and mabey what school she goes to or went to. just make small talk then the long talk will just fall into place. :) good luck

Answer 10

just ask questions and let her talk about herself because that what women like 2 do
40 year old virgin

Answer 11

Don't talk about yourself unless she asks. Ask questions about her. Ask her what her interests are, then talk about that. Be yourself and have fun.