how can i get my boyfriend back?

Question

My boyfriend and I broke up November. But we’ve still been “together” but will be officially next month when he isn't grounded anymore. He's notices that because I talk a lot w/ his best friend there's something going on between us. So he has heard that I WANT to go out with his best friend so he told me we were finished. My friends who're some of his closest friends are trying to convince him that I NEVER said or WANTED that! All I ever wanted was to have my boyfriend back.
Now he’s deleted me off his friends on myspace and took his best friend off his top friends. But his song is still “On Bended Knee” by Boys II Men. He’s told me he doesn’t want to talk to me, doesn’t care anymore, doesn’t like me anymore because of what’s happened. This all happened this weekend. How can I get him to believe me? To talk to me? My friends say to wait and let him cool off because he’s just being stubborn and will come around cuz that's just him. But i'm scared that this time, i've lost him for good.

no we're 16.
he didn't dump me through myspace.
if you're not going to give some sensible advice don't put down a crappy answer.
thanks not in the mood for crap like that.

Answer 1

If your boyfriend is still getting "grounded" you two may be a little too young for such a serious relationship. If and when you get married you will have the rest of your life to be in love with one person. Lighten up...have fun while your still young.

Answer 2

i think that u should let him cool off a little bit, and take a breather. don't even try for a day or two. let him know what he's missing. then when he seems like his normal self, talk to him. ask him for 10 min or so to explain everything from beginning to end w/ no interruptions. he needs to know how u feel and what REALLY happened. as for myspace he's probably just tryin to prove that he doesn't care, but guess wat? he does. not one person can forgive & forget that easily. u can tell by how his song is the same. like my friend says "u can forgive, but never forget". i hope this helped!

Answer 3

well, heres the deal sweetie!!! You first have to take him off your myspace friends list, that will make him think a little bit about what he is doing to you. We know you haven't been trying to get with his friends right so have them tell him the truth about you not trying to hook up with them. Next you have to figure out wether or not you want to be with him, if you can tell yourself that there are plenty of fish in the sea then you can have a new man in no time plus he will be so jelous that he will come crawling back to you, just act as if you don't care about him anymore(remember less attention is more attention) YOU have to TRUST ME!!!!!! Just say fine I dont want to be with you either then and ignore him, he will be back in a couple of days NO DOUBT that pimply little punk!!!!!!!!!! and if that dosen't work hit me up =) j/k

Answer 4

Guys r ego that's obviously. LOOK there r two kinds of character 1. Juz to get attention. Playing hard to get.
2. Emotion. SENSITIVE.
This 2 character shares e same feelings which is JEALOUSY!!! which means ure not juz someone but a Special'ones'.
Figure out n tackle it in a way of sincerity as tat really shows how much u love tat person as he could be confuse or unsure of e other party. A person who does not love e other will not act tis way. I'm sure he juz kind of scared to be left out....

Answer 5

Time . . .will . . .tell . . . Your friends are wise. Let him cool off. Once he realizes he's wrong, he'll change his stance. He probably feels frustrated because of the grounding. Sometimes paranoia will set in when you think that the world is passing you by. Paranoia can be a bad friend, much worse, an enemy. Be patient and understanding with him.

Answer 6

Why would you want him back? If he's grounded then you are either a middle aged woman tryin to get you a way too young man. Or you are both too young to be worryin about this type of thing. If he's that jealous then you don't need him. Finish High School and get a job and then worry about relationships.

Answer 7

Let him figure it out and be the one to come crawling back to you. If you leave him alone, he'll realize what he's missing and he'll either stop being such a big baby or he'll keep being a baby and you don't need a loser like that anyway. Just please stop begging and being all desperate. That's the worst thing you can do if you actually want him back.

Answer 8

just do what your friends is telling you just let him cool down and let him have his space right now and if he still want you then he will come back to you and talk everything out, so for right now just le him have his space and stay away from the best friend, i mean just don't hang out with the best friend all the time, then just hope the best come out of this

Answer 9

He probibly still likes you cuz he only broke up with you because he thought u liked his bff but if try to proove that you don't like his bbf then he'll come around so tell his best friend that your not interested and that he sould tell ur x-bf that you still love him!

Answer 10

GROUNDED!!! How old are you ??? 12 ???

Seriously, the only sensible way that I can see to rectify this situation is through black magic. Heres what you need to do..

1. You need to find something from his body, a hair, a fingernail, some blood or something, and something from yours.

2. make wax effigies of him and youself including the body bits.

3. put these figures into an embrace.

4. Hmm, not sure what to do now.. maybe you burn both figures, but that might kill you, Or maybe you eat them, or that could kill you too.

on the other hand...

Do you really want a boyfriend who listens to boys 2 men.
someone who dumps you by taking you off their myspace page.