My bf and I are in grade 7 we dont kiss or anything we just like each other and have been dating for a long time.But... we dont really talk and are not in the same click so we have different friends who hate each other so its hard to talk. I really like him hes really sweet... but im not sure should i dump him or talk to him about stuff. What should i say if i dump him. Please help me
2007-01-22 08:55:15 · 10 answers · asked by cali13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well youre 13 and life goes on, for both. if you like him stay with him and talk, if you dont feel strng about him, just move on and let him know that thigs are different and difficult it seems they are not going to work, and you'd like to stay friends.
2007-01-22 09:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by dream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're happy with him and enjoy spending time with him then you should talk to him and see what he thinks about your friends not liking each other. It can be very hard to stay together if it seems like your freinds don't get along.
If you want to break up with him just talk to him privatly, say that you don't think you should be together, and give him the reasons why. Don't do it by tect or email, over the phone is okay, but face to face is best.
You might be upset after you break up with him, thats normal, even if your the one who dumps him. Just make sure you have someone to talk to and that you don't have to se him again for a little while after, it'll just be awkward.
I hope this helps, good luck.
2007-01-22 17:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by Sovra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh please do not put that much pressure on yourself...you're only in the 7th grade...SO MUCH is still to come of your life. Just slow down and relax. You said you "really" like this guy; right? Well; then you answered your question yourself. NO...do NOT break-up with your boyfriend just because your friends don't like him. In fact; if you really do like this guy...I would suggest you alternate your hanging out times. Don't spend all of your time with just one...just boyfriend or just friends. Spend time with both. Or if it were me...I would expect my friends to be civil and polite to the man I have chosen to be with...or else they're not my true friend(s) anyway. GOOD LUCk...
2007-01-22 17:05:41 · answer #3 · answered by shaylea29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't dump him becuase if theres love you should but his friends in the relationship just talk to him and tell him "I love you, but our friends don't get along and just explain to him how you feel" He is your boyfriend so talk to him! 7 Grade well really you should be focused on school becuase bys tend to slow us down soo just try to finish school and you will find a good man in college!
2007-01-22 17:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by chilingurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dump him, be honest and speak from your heart. Just say, "you're a nice guy, I want to be friends, but I am too young and I want to get to know other people and you should too."
2007-01-22 17:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. Tell him, "I am dumping you. We have nothing in common. You have the personality of a rock. I'm going to get myself a bf that is living and breathing."
2007-01-22 16:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you like him and you think he's sweet.. why do you care what other people think? they aren't dating him..
sometimes when your young its hard to not go along with your friends.. but sometimes you need to think for youself and do what you think is right..
its a good lesson to learn
2007-01-22 17:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him you should stay with him and dont just break up with him beacause he isnt as "popular" as you..
2007-01-22 16:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by brandix42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should take a dump on him
2007-01-22 16:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by Wuuut? 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dump him.
2007-01-22 17:25:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋