why does it seem that when i finally find a guy, he likes someone else...and there's no breaking him of his addiction to her? how do i know if i'm too aggressive?
2007-01-22 08:47:14 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Victoria♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Victoria-
I went through this quite a bit from the ages of 15-18. If he/she likes someone else...move on! You're probably a fun loving gal who is too good for him anyway! The whole befriend and hope he'll notice you is just un-necessary heartache. Live life like you just don't give a crap what the "right" people think of you and you'll start attracting the most amazing people!! Including guys!
Sounds so cliche but it worked awesome for me! I'm happily married now!
2007-01-22 08:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie, if he likes someone else, you haven't found him. He's not yours. He never was. If someone likes you, they'll be attracted to you and only you, and he'll approach you. Anytime you approach another guy, you stand the chance of him liking or being attracted to someone else. Move on. You have no chance. Live your life and stop worrying about guys, then when you least expect it, that special someone will find you. Good luck sweetie!
2007-01-22 16:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you try to break a relationship up to get a guy? If you succeed, you will only worry about who is trying to do the same to you. Take your time, and set your goals for what you want (and not just what looks good) and eventually you will find Mr Right.
2007-01-22 16:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know that you found a guy but he like other woman... but you know you want find a guy that really love you and you love him. that what it count.
My wife I so much in love with her and she so much in love with me guess what we bene married for 9 years and 2 kids and 3rd due in march 2007... so you can see how strong it is and stuff like that.
If you found me and in love iwth me and I am in love with you you would be like this in a wonderful marriage.
If you found me and in love with me and I am not in love with you and chance are it will not last in year or less.
I hope you find a guy who being him not a guy try to be someone. you can be yourself and guys would love you more. If you try to be someone then later found out who you really are. I married my wife because she being her that best thing in the world for me married this woman.
I hope this helps. You not aggressive... no no...
2007-01-22 16:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotta keep looking for a guy. Obviously the guys u like r not right for u. Don't be too picky wth guys.
2007-01-22 16:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by fun fun fun .... you know the rest 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you found a guy who likes someone else, then you found nothing.
2007-01-22 16:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by fizzents 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you can holla at me..im 20 a virgin and neva hadda girl and neva smoked or drinked so hollaaa
2007-01-22 16:51:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋