I just asked my ex-girlfriend backout. She says she dosn't know quite yet because she's afraid if she says no I'll try to kill myself like I did before. And if she says yes and things don't work out again she thinks I'm gonna try to kill myself. I told her I was past that part of my life and I got the help I needed to move on but she counters that by saying I get depressed alot still even if I don't cut. I still love her as much as I did when we broke up but I dont know how to tell her so I get to the point where I just come home from school, sit in my room and cry. I know I'm only in eigth-grade, but I think I've found love!
2007-01-22 08:26:06 · 12 answers · asked by DeanB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
**** all you ppl tht think i need a shrink! i see one every other goddamn week and he dosn't help me one ******* bit. don't talk to me about being tired of hearing it! my parents are too! besides, it's my life, which means it's my property and i can end it if i ****** want to.
2007-01-22 10:15:18 · update #1
You need help, seriously.
2007-01-22 08:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by Fire_God_69 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all that is great that you've found love at such a young age, many people never know what love is, so you should feel blessed just to have experienced love.
You need to be strong. You need to stop getting so down about the fact that you are not dating her anymore and instead be happy that she is still in your life and that it DOES seem like she wants to be with you. You need to enjoy life, your so young, don't be so down about this. She is only looking our for you. So put your chin up, put a smile on your face and keep the positive. If you are meant to be, you will be, if not then this will just make you stronger. You experience love and now you won't want to settle for less. Good luck!
2007-01-22 16:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought I found love when I was in 8th grade, then in 10th and 11th grade and in university, but the real relationship of love is the one that started in University. Teens often feel they have found real and lasting love. Lots of these emotions are tied to the fact that your body is changing (puberty) it is so easy to think and feel your are really in love. I cried a lot during those years. Give yourself and this girl some room and time to grow, if it was meant to be it will, but in the mean time enjoy life and get to know other girls, they may end up being the best friends you will ever have, with no pressure of lasting relationships.
Make sure you talk to those you trust about your feelings.
2007-01-22 16:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro, you'll be in love many more times before you find the one. Each time you'll understand love a little better. I say it's best to move on from her. It sounds like she has already been through a lot with you and you should let her move on also. Believe me, when you find the next girl, you'll forget about the current one. I hate to hear a young brother talk about suicide. I was your age once and it was tough, but you get through it and you become a better person each time. When you get older, you'll look back and see how trivial it all was, but it was an important time in your life. Make sure you have your own life in order because if you don't you'll only be making the lives of those you love miserable. Time to move on bro.
2007-01-22 16:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, I found my husband in the 3rd grade, so it doesn't matter wat grade you are in or anything like that. Try suggesting to be friends first so that she can see that you have changed. Give her a bit, and then talk to her about getting more serious. Glade you got the help that you need and I hope that it all works out for you.
and don't listen to that "beautiful blonde" chick she's just upset cuz she is a nobody and has no chance at making her life worth anything, vs. you who are in the 8th grade and have many opportunities to make life something worth living.
2007-01-22 16:30:54 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give everyone a break, if you need the selfish attention by trying to kill yourself on more than one occasion then just do it and spare everyone the agony. It's so tiring hearing these cry's for help when needing extreme attention, sorry for you having to go through this physiological event?? but get serious and spend times with shrinks not girls
2007-01-22 16:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A boy I went to high school with, him and his girlfriend broke up and he tried to kill himself. Now he is paralyzed from the neck down. He never got the girl back and regrets even trying to kill himself. There are plenty of girls out there, don't settle for the first one.
2007-01-22 16:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by karilyn2202 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
dude your still young. no girl is worth killing yourself over. and you may want to see a therapist, and if you already have, you may want to keep going. if your truley inlove, let her go, and let her realize what she is missing. you really freaked her out it sounds like.
2007-01-22 16:31:30 · answer #8 · answered by Norma Jean Riley 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I AM AFFRAID TO GIVE YOU MY OPINION,YOU JUST MIGHT KILL YOURSELF AFTER YOU READ IT.SO GOOD LUCK DUDE,IF YOU KILL YOURSELF TELL THE DEVIL NOT TO RESERVE A SPOT FOR ME.B/C THAT IS WHERE EVERYBODY THAT TAKES THERE OWN LIFE AWAY IS IN,HELL.IT IS UP TO GOD WHEN YOU DIE NOT YOU...
2007-01-22 16:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by dce1dg 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go up to her let her know that you love her more than ever and you're going crazzzzzy....and tell her that youre going to kill youreself if she says no......trust me she will not want that to happen..
2007-01-22 16:29:03 · answer #10 · answered by :) 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋