i had sex last night with my bf and he has a huge you know what. we're both 21 and where engaged. but when i had sex with him it hurt like hell and i know he tried to be gentle. but it still hurts i tried pain killers but it still hurts
is there any thing that can help ?
2007-01-22 08:12:11 · 29 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are several possible reasons as others have said...if his "you know what" is thick and since this is your first time you are still tight in that area that could be the reason. Wait until the pain goes away to try again. Also you might want to check with your gyno just to make sure you don't have any medical reasons that it was painful such as cysts (fairly common) or your body doesn't produce enough natural lubricant in which case you can buy a lube (some of which are made to enhance the experience). My guess though would be the mix of it being your first time and that he is large in which case being gentle, using lube and time will help. Soak in a nice hot bath and take it easy for a couple of days and it should help.
2007-01-22 08:33:51 · answer #1 · answered by Troubled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the pain will go away in a day or two, and it won't hurt anymore. If it was your first time ever, there is a small patch of skin inside you that was torn, that is what hurt so bad. It shouldn't hurt after the first time, hope that helps.
2007-01-22 08:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by JC N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you do it, make sure you have lube handy....It makes it much easier for both of you...and it should be less painful the more you do it...I don't know what to tell you for you're current pain...try a hot bath that might make you relax and feel a little better.
2007-01-22 08:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by YourGSpot.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lord child - pain killa dont cure the "put-it-on-ya-syndrome" honey if it was ya first time you have to become a custom to your mans private area. you both just have to be gentle with each other and always tell him what you like. you have to guide him and tell him what your feeling or he will assume you like this. Soak is some hot water and try try again.
2007-01-22 08:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soak in a warm bath. This will help soothe you (down there) If the problem persists, call your Dr. and desrcibe the situation. She may tell you there's no need to come in or she may advise a check up.
2007-01-22 08:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by BLady2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soak in the tub but pain killers will not work. It will become less painful as time goes on.
2007-01-22 08:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes perfect. What you're experiencing is perfectly normal. Just make sure to have some extra lubricaction in addition to your own naturaal juices. You'll be OK.
2007-01-22 08:20:05 · answer #7 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This pain will soon go away...just be glad you arent bleeding...Next time you wont have this problem(hopefully)...try some KY gel next time to,to help keep moist down there
2007-01-22 08:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by Simple1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time...if there is a next time, get a bucket of vaseline and dunk his weenie in it and lather up your opening too...it will make the "going" smoother, easier, etc etc.
2007-01-22 08:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time.
If it's "huge" and ur a virgin then it's gonna hurt.
if ur really bothered by it after 2 days i guess u should contact ur primary care physician to ask if there's anything you can do or be worried about
2007-01-22 08:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by SP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋