I'd like to make this a two-part question, but I'm rather new here. Still...
Girls, if someone told you that some guy likes you, what would you say to them? For the purpose of this question, we'll say that it's some guy you've never really thought of as "boyfriend" material. Not that this guy is terrible, but you just don't know him too well.
2007-01-22 08:08:44 · 21 answers · asked by Adventuresome Ron 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Me personally, I like my man to be a man. When someone tells me he has a crush on you I always respond if he likes me so much why are you here instead of him? I then erase the gossip from my mind until that person comes and speaks to me directly. Confidence is sexy, scared and bashful just makes you look weak.
So instead of sending your friend to let her know you like her, ask her to go with you someplace casual, like the movies and the mall. You can even play it off like you'll be going as friends. Then when she says yes while your out let her know she is a great friend you wouldn't mind being more than friends with.
2007-01-22 08:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by WriterChic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being the person that I am, I would look at the guy as a whole. I would evaluate him on niceness, how he behaves with other people, his intelligence, if he will last long in a relationship and then looks. If I find that this guy isn't that bad, I wouldn't directly go out and say, "Do you like me?" First I'd wait a little bit then I'd start hanging out with him a little. If he seems friendly enough, then I'll continue to hang out with him and might develop a crush on him.Eventually, if I show enough interest in the guy, he'll probably ask me out.
2007-01-22 16:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone told me that someone liked me, and I didn't know them too well and I never thought of them romantically, that means that I don't like them back. It's funny, because I am going through this right now. At my church there is this guy, who is like totally crazy about me, he liked me before I had my boyfriend but I never liked him that way. So I was friendly to him, talked to him, text him, but I never brought up anything that lead him to believe that I liked him or to let him know, that I knew he liked me. That way I could stll be his friend. When I got my boyfriend(that I love with all my heart) we started to only talk on Sundays. He still hugs me, I say hello and that's about it. I am still just as nice as ever, but I do not lead him on, and he doesn't feel like I'm leading him on. There's a civil and polite way to do everything, without someone getting their feelings hurt. If it were school and I didn't know him, I wouldn't say anything to him if I knew that he liked me. What would be the point? Guys tend to read too much into things, if the girl they like says hi to them or looks their way, they start getting all these ideas in their head that they have a chance. At least the guys at my school. So I wouldn't say anything, or be polite and say hello and talk to them if they talked to me. But I would make sure I didn't lead them on. I hope this answered your question babe!
2007-01-22 16:16:26 · answer #3 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if I didn't like him in the first place, I probably wouldn't even after I found out but I'd see him in a different light. I wouldn't do anything, I'd wait for him to make a move and then see what happens. If he doesn't do anything, well that's just his problem; if he didn't bother to make me fall for him or confess his feelings, he's not worth my time.
2007-01-22 16:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by Lyla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would explore it a little further. Sometimes the guys who don't seem like boyfriend material make the best boyfriends.
2007-01-22 16:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by rainy_blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd probably say something like that's sweet but if I liked the guy I would go out of my way to talk to them after that.
2007-01-22 16:11:41 · answer #6 · answered by purple rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just leave it at that because I don't know if it's true and I don't even know the guy. It has happened to me before and I'm just indifferent about it.
If we don't know each other and you like me but I have to hear it from someone else, it just goes to show that you're weak and I like men who are more dominant.
2007-01-22 16:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say "Oh really what is his name?" You never can tell if a boy is bf material. Because the one that look like bf material are not and the ones that look like their not bf material are. so I would see if it were true or not.
2007-01-22 16:21:16 · answer #8 · answered by Love me now boyz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on what was happening in my life then, if I had a guy or were too busy to date, I'd probably not be interested.
2007-01-22 16:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well depending on if I liked that guy too then I would try to make conversation and see where it leads...
2007-01-22 16:11:26 · answer #10 · answered by Eastcoast beachgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋