2007-01-22 08:08:25 · 10 answers · asked by toppercheerleader2012 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't. You mind your own business. ALWAYS. This is a real no-no and believe me if he doesn't already know, he will eventually. And who knows, he may not do anything about it, and if he does, let him be the one to do this on his own.
2007-01-22 08:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by sage seeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is hard bcuz the delema of coming between a boy who's a friend and the other girl that is his girlfriend, makes you look jealous and like you want him for you. If you are really good friends with him tho you should know when is best to approach him and let him know you care about him and what happens to him. Let him know exactly how you feel about someone treating him "in a bad way" and that he deserves to be treated kinder.
2007-01-22 16:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by Eastcoast beachgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. I did it when I was in college, and thankfully, he ended up not marrying the girl. She was terrible. Actually, it was a group of us. We joined together for a mass assault. We just let him know what we saw. He pretty much knew what we were talking about, and was thankful.
She ended up married to some other guy within 6 months. From what I know, she was the same way with that guy as well. Guess his friends didn't care as much about him. Poor guy.
2007-01-22 16:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can be a touchy subject because, he's going to defend her honor just by you telling him. I know that you are concerned about your friend but, a person in love sometimes is blinded by that love and won't listen to "reason" from other people until they themselves make the decision. So, you can tell him your opinion but, make sure he knows that it is just that, your opinion and he should understand. Remember, others relationships are not something to get into unless abusive or life threatening. Good luck.
2007-01-22 16:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey "John" whats up? How are things going with "Jane"? Okay, I don't mean anything bad by this, just an opinion, but don't you think "Jane" is being kind of bossy towards you. I think you deserve better, but again, just an opinion. By the way, don't tell anyone I told this to you. I don't want "Jane" to hate me forever.
You can add a "Don't get me wrong, I don't like you or anything, I mean I'm not trying to break you guys up, just so I can go out with you," to it, if you don't want to go out with him.
2007-01-22 16:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by Steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Your opinion doesn't count and it may not be his opinion. In every relationship one person loves more than the other and the one that loves the most is the one that gets hurt. A growing up process.
2007-01-22 16:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by bestbet77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats always hard. be like "hey i need to talk to you. look i dont think your girlfriend is treating you the way you deserve to be treated." and elaborate with example.
good luck =]
2007-01-22 16:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by little lizzy lou lemon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont , just stay out of it, it will only cause trouble 1 way or another
2007-01-22 16:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by manson1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by telling him the truth
2007-01-22 16:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by tSk1LLz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if you have vested interests...if you are doing it to secure his trust, then your judgement may be obsecured.
Think clearly
2007-01-22 16:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋