Ok so i told my bf to beat it because he was ignoring me and turning up the music when i was talkn to him now its been 2 weeks of us being mad and i textd him that he should pick up the gift i got him for our 3yr anniversary when he was not busy he did not return my text and i found out he got home early last night i shouldnt try to text him again should i? i mean i want to know what is going on between us i hate this there is no communication when we have these dumb fights on occasions were both stubborn and prob is i really love him a lot i know its bad but i am miserable without him in my life its like i feel empty when hes not there but if he cared and wanted it to work wouldnt he come by last night? I know he loves me but he doesnt seem to care anymore if we work out or not as a relationship so why cant i stop missing him =(
2007-01-22 08:01:04 · 12 answers · asked by bkgrl718 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh wow...well first he might be seeing someone else and is trying to tell u he doesn't want u anymore. or either he needs sometime. I know this girl that didn't talk to her bf in 3 months cause they were mad at each other. and then at her b-day he came and surprised her. He might need some time. well i wish u both the best of luck!
2007-01-22 08:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by Hailee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been with this person for 3yrs. and that's not something you can just let go of easily. Someone has to be the bigger person during an argument and try to work things out peacefully. You mentioned how you felt when he's away from you and how much you love him well, try to remember how this feels if he comes back and what not to say or do to send him away again. When the pain exceeds the pleasure, you'll do something different to help the situation, not make it worse. I know it's hard to do that but, what lengths are you willing to go to for this relationship to work? Hope it works out for you. If not, take this as a learning experience. Control your anger and emotions!
2007-01-22 08:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is give and take. All relationship have fights. If you made first move to make up by sending a message to him then its now in his court. Don't sit home hoping he will show up. Not saying go out with other boys but go to movies, shopping and other things with family or one of your girl friends. He will get back to you faster if your not just staying home crying over him. The ball in his court so do thing till he make a showing of love back
2007-01-22 08:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by sara a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....your problem reminds me of someone I know.. in fact you remind me of someone.
... He doesnt care, obviously. Either he's keeping you around becuase he thinks your easy, or... he's indecisive. If he doesnt care anymore, then you should probably try nd stop caring too. Let him come to YOU. Needy is not a quality many men like.
2007-01-22 08:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by kinky toes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he eems like he doesn't care and doesn't liston to you then maybe you should move on... I know its hard but it might catch his attention that you won't put up with his **** or you could just end up being more happier without him
2007-01-22 08:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by The H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont text him anymore, i know it hurts when they dont talk to u but he could have someone else and that could be why he is acting differnet towards u.
2007-01-22 08:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spy on him..maybe he found another one to keep company with... hate to say it...
2007-01-22 08:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you pick up the phone and call him, not text him. tell him you want to see him.
2007-01-22 08:06:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he starts taking you for granted its time for you to get busy busy busy...with your own life and own friends....and don't jump just cuz he calls
2007-01-22 08:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you. Get over it.
2007-01-22 08:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋