About a month ago, i broke with y boyfriend and for about a week we were both ok with it then a couple of weeks ago he suddenly stoppped talking to me. I CANNOT get him to talk to me anymore. I have asked a couple of his friends if he is mad at me but they all say he is still in love with me. I have caught him looking at me a couple times and i feel really bad that i hurt him when i broke up with him. Well since he started not talking to me i haven't sleeping well at all. Everyone at school says i look like i haven't slept in a week. I don't feel like eating very much. And alot of the time i am craving chocolate. All my friends tell me im going Anorexic becuase i look thinner and i won't eat that much. What is going on with me?... I'm concerned about myself and i'm really worried that my friends are wasting all their time worrying about me. They say it is becuase of my ex boyfriend. (his name is glenn). Any suggestions or anything?
2007-01-22 07:58:43 · 18 answers · asked by Ms. Mystery 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you may be craving chocolate because it stimulates the release of endorphins - (happy hormone). It sounds like you are feeling bad about a relationship that has gone "south" that anxiety could be giving you wrest less sleep and a lack of appetite. I would suggest you try and eat something healthy even if you force yourself . it sounded like you ended on a good note tho - there is not much you can do about his decision. Give him some time and don't let this bother you , you did your best, there is nothing more you can do but your best. After that its up to him. Hope you feel better soon and that things calm down.
2007-01-22 08:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by jules2001za 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well Girl, Here is the thing, you broke up with your man for a reason I am sure, maybe you just didn't feel the same way for him anymore or some other reason.But non the less you felt strong enough about it at the time to want to do it.Right? So, what you feel now is guilt and to be honest guilt can make you do and feel alot of horrible things.Just know this, you broke up with him for your own reasons,and regardless if he wants to be mad at you or not, you made a choice that you felt was the best.Now just realize it and stop trying to find a way to fix something that don't need fixing.He will be fine and move on and find another girl and learn to love again.You cant go around carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders thinking you can protect others from getting hurt or feeling hurt.
If its that important to you,write him a note and mail it to him or just email him one.Trust me, he will read it.Let him know why you broke it off and tell him you still care for him but don't deserve to be treated like a wretch because you made a choice.Either he forgives you or he don't.But if I was you I wouldn't loose anymore sleep or meals over this.Life can be tough and there will be plenty more tuff things to come in life.Learn that your gonna have to get some resistance if you plan on living past teen years.
2007-01-22 16:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 6 billion people on the planet. Forget Glenn find another boyfriend and move on. If you ignore him and he truely
loves you he will come back with his tail between his legs.
Although I think things have changed since I was young. It almost seems as though the girls persue the men now. Its all backwards.
2007-01-22 16:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by trichbopper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try finding things you love in life instead of the love OF your life for a little while. Spend time with your friends, find a hobby, play a sport, do something that you love to do for some time, to help you get over not having a boyfriend.
2007-01-22 16:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by itsALICE! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously still have feeling for him. I dont understand why you broke up with him. Well maybe this was a good thing so you would realize that you do want him. You should try to get with hi again. You know you still have feelings for him.
2007-01-22 16:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by bkg92403 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up with him if you feel bad for doing it? You shouldn't be going through this if you broke up with him. don't harm yourself, try and talk to him. Don't give up until he gives in and starts talking again. He can't hold out forever. Hope it goes well
2007-01-22 16:03:13 · answer #6 · answered by EvilLaughingLeprachaun08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back out with him see how it feels..stop worrying it happens your going to have to get over it sometime soemthing like that happend to me and now me and my boyfriend are going out again for 3 yrs. if you have feelings for him ask him out if you dont have those feelings have them come to you or just tell glenn that you just want to be friends just because you broke up with him duznt mean you guys cant be friends nd have that ruin ur friend ship before you guys went out i want you guys to sit down think about it and talk about it you cant have this go on forever
2007-01-22 16:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Push Play for Jonas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him be. My ex bf isn't talking to me either. Its been a few months and I'm ok with that now. It took me awhile I tried talking to him then he got all mad at me and stuff so not fun.
2007-01-22 16:03:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is going on with you is that you are dwelling on the break up rather than moving on with your life. He doesn't HAVE to talk to you if he doesn't WANT to so get over the fact that you can't get him to talk to you. Your problems aren't because of HIM...they are because of YOU and the fact that YOU refuse to let go of what is no longer there.
2007-01-22 16:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're x bf was still talking to you because he thought that maby if he kept up his friend ship with you eventually you would take him back.This did not happen so he decided to cut all ties with you & move on.I suggest you move on too & stop worring about him. Concentrate on you're own health & self.
2007-01-22 16:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by jimbobob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋