Everone in my school seems to be pairing up.
And i'm still single.
How do u get guys?
2007-01-22 07:54:28 · 27 answers · asked by softbal094 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends....if u are on the age group of 13-15 try to talk to guys,approach them to ask them something about school etc and ask there msn or messenger.after-wards you will start talking with them and if everything works well u may have a relationship as well!
OR if u are16-18 hang out in clubs,parties etc try to dress nice ,to be polite ,never under estimate yourself and you follow the same procedure...find their number or msn and talk to them in order to get closer!
Some things to remember:
1.Find someone you like and don't just agree to be with any random guy that u find, because all your other friends have bf's
2.Be Yourself....act like yourself, speak like yourself and don't let anyone tell u to behave differently...u are who you are and you have to love yourself for what you are!!!
Good Luck=0)
2007-01-22 08:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...this is a funny question sweetie. You said how can you "get" a boyfriend. A boy should be getting you. Every guy I've ever dated has asked me out first, because that's just how I am. Either you approach me or it doesn't happen. I am myself, I go about my business as if no one else exist besides me and my friends, and hey I snagged a great one that I love with all my heart. You can't be desperate and or immature enough to want t a boyfriend just because everyone else in your school looks like they have one. If you do get one it won't last because you're doing it for all the wrong reasons. You seem very impressionable which is so not a good thing. Be an individual, I'm sure not all the guys at your school are "taken", if you're hot I'm sure you'll get someone based on that alone, but don't rush into having a boyfriend so fast. You seem young, the people that couple up, most of them won't be together for long.....and you'll still be attacthed to someone you didn't really care about in the first place. Boyfriends are a responsibility, one that I don't think you're ready for that's a big step. I am way older than you, I have one, and it's work. When I wasn't ready I didn't have one, now I am. AND HE CAME TO ME. But yah, this is what you do sweetie. Go to MTV.com, and download Virtual Laguna Beach, you can have as many boyfriends as you want and none of the responsibility practice for the future. Good luck babe!
2007-01-22 16:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well look there is no rush, when you are less interested they show up. Just because you think everyone has a boyfriend, doesn't mean you have to have one as well. Don't be desperate sweetie, perhaps your very young and want to experience love but let them come to you. Sooner or later you Will find a boyfriend but for now enjoy being single and focus in school. A boy is never gonna get you a diploma.
2007-01-22 16:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be have normal at your school and a guy will definitely come looking for you if you act desperate than every boy will start wondering is there something wrong with this chick why cant she get a boy friend so babes just stay cool and take thing how they come you are just in school there is a long life ahead you will definitely find Mr charming soon
2007-01-22 16:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by Kash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly how old are you.
Second, don't worry about it you are still in school. I know having a boy in school is a big deal but you have got to think, that the girls that are getting boyfriends are probably having casual hookups and not the real thing that you are searching for, i say just be patient, you will eventually get a boy friend, just focus on school for the moment.
2007-01-22 16:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by princess_kimnus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone who is claiming a boyfriend in High School are all LOSERS and NASTY. Those relationships will never last. Strive to be the unique individual that you are and focus on your education. Have fun and enjoy being you...a single beautiful person who does not get guys just because.
2007-01-22 16:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by JK 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I've been there, still there, and am doing that. No boyfriend, but it's alright. I got good friends and we still have good times. I don't need a guy to make me happy, and neither do you. I know it seems kind of lonely sometimes to see people around you but ir's really nothing. I promise. Just try to have fun with good friends and live your life to the fullest.
2007-01-22 15:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mizuki 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is to be yourself.
If the boys don't like you for the way you are then they aren't good for you anyway. You will eventually will meet a guy who would die for you but don't change just because you are desperate for a guy. Show your perseverance. You'll be fine.
2007-01-22 16:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont get one wait for the right one i would rather find a girl who was waiting for the right guy than just pairing up like eveyone else..
2007-01-22 15:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by rm4real 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't go looking for them sweetie because you'll run into a loser! Just sit back, chill, and focus your energy on more productive things, and maybe a decent man will come along.
2007-01-22 16:04:13 · answer #10 · answered by kay-kay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋