There is something in gut but i dont know what to do please help?
2007-01-22 07:53:18 · 12 answers · asked by sexystef14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is your gut telling you? You said "there is something in my gut...." You have fallen for someone you don't know.....but your gut is telling you to ....be cautious, stay away, be on your guard, don't pursue.....if these are some of the things you might be feeling then you better follow your gut!
2007-01-22 07:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by DariusAA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's in you gut? Fear? An uneasy feeling? A creepy feeling? Is he married? If it's just cold feet, ask him to join you at a party somewhere. Maybe you're just afraid to be alone with him yet. How about a ball game somewhere? If no pro teams around, there are college teams. You've got to ask yourself what's holding you back. If you're just being shy, then tell yourself that the worst he can do is say no, and you will know then to move on. You've heard that before, and will hear it again. The best scenario is that he'll say yes. Summon up your courage girlfriend. Good luck.
2007-01-30 15:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. Me and this guy went to the same high school and we NEVER spoke but i noticed him in the halls all the time. He was the new kid our senior year and he thought that i was out of his reach because i had so many friends and i thought he was stuck up because he was so quiet. We ran into each other in the mall three years later and i spoke, we walked away from each other but he chased after me and we began talking about how we had crushes on each other but never said anything. If we wouldve just SAID something we wouldve been together all those years. I know this because he is now my husband. Say something, u dont wanna let something good go away because you may not get a second chance. Good luck honey!
2007-01-22 16:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by marinewife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What have you fallen for if you don't even know the person?
Looks? So what? Lots of guys look good.
Your gut is telling you to keep your shirt (and everything else) on until you find out who this person is and then decide whether or not he is someone you can respect and admire.
2007-01-22 15:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by Puzzler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never underestimate your inner feeling. Never ignore the sixth sense we are fortunate enough to have been given. There is a reason, whether you know what it is or not, that you are being cautioned. Wait it out. You may be attracted to this person so just admire from afar. You will know more in a short time and understand what was going on. For now, be patient. You may or may not still be interested after some time. Believe in yourself!
2007-01-22 15:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something bad in your gut feeling?? If this is the case then listen to your gut instincts they tend to be correct and don't date this guy.
2007-01-22 16:01:52 · answer #6 · answered by Michael K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be BOLD Daring, put your phone number and first name down on a piece of paper, and walk right up and give it to him. That puts the ball or response in his court, he then either calls you or talks to you then, but leave the question or mystery about you with him he won't be able to resist.And if he doesn't then you'll know, he either is with someone or he isn't interested ,without the embarrassment of a let down. And if he loses it then he will be on a mission to find you.
2007-01-30 14:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by Joner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of doing a one on one date do a group date. that way you can ask your friends about him. and if they dont get a good vibe off of him then you might wanna trust your on gut.
2007-01-30 15:40:20 · answer #8 · answered by Sara Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how bout u first just try and stike up a friendly conversation...if something is destined to happen b/w u and this lucky guy it will evolve
2007-01-22 15:56:58 · answer #9 · answered by icingonthekake99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing that can happen is he says NO. Take that chance you never know what might happen, you only live ONCE!
2007-01-30 15:51:56 · answer #10 · answered by blckjacc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋