i have only been with 2 men my entire life i am 29 years old ok.i have never had an orgasam with my ex husband whom at the time was my husband.now that im with this new guy whom i ve been with for 1 yr and a half he gives me one almost everytime we are together and at first i did not know what it felt like but once i had one i scream its its like no other pleasure in the world,why am now just starting to have them???
2007-01-22 07:53:18 · 12 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having an orgasm is hard for some women unless they have strong feelings for that person, not just physical. Maybe your ex just didn't find your "spot" like this guy has.
2007-01-22 07:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women never have one so be glad to have one. I start having mines early ( i say first one was at 16)and then they would just varie like stronger or longer or i would squirt, etc. Now it all depends on lovers too. Maybe you need to be out there for some time and just date. Just learn new things. I know its not abotu sex but do it for yourself. Enjoy it while you can, while menopause is not there, while you still not too old. Because being 29 and having first orgasm only now is kind of messed up and just pretty sad. Go out there have fun and have a different man to yourself that can show you real pleasure, so you can *** more then once during intercourse.
2007-01-22 16:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry why it took so long ... just sit back and enjoy ... congrats ... lol ... !
Some women never orgasm ... others need a lot of stimulation ... I guess your new man knows all the " hot spots " ... it could also be that you finally found the one ... the one who will take care of you no matter what ... the one who takes the time to really pleasure you ... !
2007-01-22 15:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most times its because you are very comfortable with this person and allow yourself to relax enough to experience the full pleasure of it all.Most women that have problems with achieving orgasms only do so because of the inability to let themselves not be tense and uptight.This guy obviously helps to take away your personal inhibitions and gets you in the perfect state of mind to let the rest follow.Don't ask why,just don't think about it and enjoy!
2007-01-22 15:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because your ex didn't sexually stimulate you. There is nothing worst than pleasure-less sex. Who does that! All men are definitely not the same, and I am glad you found someone to jump your bones the right way.!!
2007-01-22 15:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by kay-kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever read a book, magazine, watched T.V> or anything to learn this answer to your? 1st guy, you are scared and do not know what to do, it is not all his fault. Guys are dumb when it comes to making a girl ***! They do not know how to do it correctly. 2nd guy, was obviously well learned. NOW you have to learn how to do it on your own, then you can have 1 anytime that you want. Without men. Then you can also learn how to please a man once you learn yourself.
2007-01-22 16:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same situation - turns out my ex-husband was just a lousy (we were both in experienced) lover. However, it could also be that you have more self confidence and have allowed yourself to relax more with your new husband.
2007-01-22 15:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men know where to hit the spot. The one you have now does. Simple as that. Enjoy it!
2007-01-22 15:57:50 · answer #8 · answered by Laurali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you feel more at ease with this man or maybe he knows what to do to make you feel this way. Don't question it, enjoy it.
2007-01-22 15:57:21 · answer #9 · answered by jaws1013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because your X was not hitting the right spot
2007-01-22 15:56:17 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋