My ex and I dated for 1 month after I asked her out homecoming night. I admit I was excited and asked her out before I actually really knew her well. Nothing really happened in that month except going to a few football games, a few hugs, and a week of hand holding before I ended it. I just felt that we weren't really connecting. Plus she never had time to do anything during the week or weekends. It was both our first relationships too. During the end of my relationship I would talk to my ex's best friend alot more than to my ex and began to have strong feelings for her. A month after I broke up I told her that I liked her and she said we couldn't date because it was against the code, would hurt her my ex...the usual stuff. She says all she can see us as right now is friends, and doesn't know if we could date in the future. If ever. We are still good frnds, but I hurt inside knowing that i can't be with her. Will it ever be OK? What should I do? I feel there is no1 else better. Really
2007-01-22 07:53:17 · 5 answers · asked by olnavybean 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just keep talking to her and maintain the friendship. She will let you know when the time is right.
2007-01-22 07:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, from a girl's point of view, i really agree, it IS the code you would be going against! i mean, i could never date my best friends ex, it would break her heart , n knowing that it would be very akward between u, her, n her best mate, it's wouldn't be worth the try! not ryte now anyway! it would kind of wreak a friendship, knowing that ur best friend is hitting it off with ur ex, and watching them happy together, PAINFUL! i would leave it for a while, let the situation settle, give it some time,and still have a close friendship with this girl you like! if you both like eachother, then, i think it's best you both talk to her best friend, about how you feel n no hard feelings !
2007-01-22 16:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by baby phat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should take her advice and be a friend, time will tell you never know you may end up together, but it is still too soon after your breakup with you ex before moving to the bf.
2007-01-22 15:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your ex's friend thinks it's against the code - she will not go out with you.
2007-01-22 15:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so if u like her go wit her ya dig she has nothing to do with u n ur ex and if she was ur ex BESTFRIEND she wouldnt get jealous cuz yall not together nemore
2007-01-22 15:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by loving my Prince Xaivier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋