Well, I got together with this boy but he has a baby daughter. I wouldnt call myself an expert with kids as Im still young and havent got any kids. Most nights he is out working or clubbin, leaving me to take care of his child and it's getting really annoying.
I can't take it anymore because we are always having rows about the baby because even though I dont know how to look after kids, I'm scared that if I leave him, he wont take much care of his child.
Everyone tells me to leve him as the child isn't my responsibility.
What should I do?
2007-01-22 07:38:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE is using you as a live in nanny!
ditch the chap before he makes you pregnant and then you are stuck
also why is he on his own with a baby?
where is mum in all this?
2007-01-22 07:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, sometimes i just cant understand u girls! why would u want to spend ur life taking care of a baby thats not even yours while ur man is out "working" and clubbin with other girls??? ur young and u need to live ur life to the fullest and not be stuck at home with some baby thats not even yours! i say u leave that relationship and tell him to tell his parents or somebody else to take care of the baby. i understand u being concerned bout the baby and everything, but if its not yours, why u making ur life harder??? the way i see it, ur just being used by him so he can be out n bout with other women! u gotta open ur eyes n leave.
2007-01-22 07:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by oc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont stay over the baby, if you want out of the relationship then go. You said it for yourself, you dont know how to raise a child so uh, why are you trying to? The baby is his responsibility so therefore he should raise it, not you. He shouldnt be out in the clubs or whatever he is doing while you are giving up your own time just to be with this child of his.....Move on with your life, let him grow up and be a man....
2007-01-22 07:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone who tells you that is absolutely right. He's simply using you and not only making a fool of you but taking away your chance of meeting the right guy. LEAVE HIM! Social Services will see that the baby is cared for.
2007-01-22 07:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by artleyb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where is the childs mother? he is using you and you should not put up with it, there are many people in his family and the babys mothers family who are responsible for the baby. dont let him bring you down, get out and leave him behind, the baby will be fine, dont worry
2007-01-22 07:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by cookie 85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him, or get him to pay you as a babysitter! it sounds harsh but it looks very much as if he is using you, rather then including u in his family AND love life. just be strong, and if you left him and still worry bout the baby, call social services without giving your name! you'll be fine, just gotta be strong now!
2007-01-22 07:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by tinaschuler78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from the sound of it you have bonded with this baby and you are with this guy because u feel sorry for the baby. u should be with someone because you love them and he is just using u to babysit the longer u stay with him the more u re going to bond with him and it will became difficult to end things with him.
2007-01-22 07:48:38 · answer #7 · answered by nat j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the baby of at his mothers and don't come back!
2007-01-22 07:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him to holding te baby dont worry sweety he will look after her if you dont honestly x
2007-01-22 07:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by pinkwitch1975 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't mind being used stay.
2007-01-22 07:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋