I was dating this guy. He went to school in NC and I live in GA. Over the break we were together and I loved it. We liked eachother alot you know. But when he went back to school I was cool with us just talking on the phone and stuff so I was comfortable. He on the other hand dealt with it until he just stopped calling and picking up his phone. I was devestated. We went from XOXO to ring ring no answer! I had my BF call him and ask him what happened btw us and he tells him that "I like her and all but I don't like talking on the phone all the time. And we will hardley get to see eachother so I didn't want to tell her that I wasn't comfortable with that." What do I do????
2007-01-22 07:31:42 · 18 answers · asked by Kai 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should tell him that he might not like talking on the phone but thats the only you two can connect until the breaks and stuff like that but dont make him sound mean just say it.
2007-01-22 07:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by Ky_bello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people arent phone people if that makes since, and being that you two live so far apart, that could really complicate things in the long run so I say to you, let him go and find someone closer to be with you whenever you need them because in the long run, this is how you will feel...I know this because I was in a similar situation and my ex told me the exact thing, that she needs someone who is closer to where she lives so whenever she feels the need to be with him, then he is there
2007-01-22 15:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many reasons could play in a factor: He is seeing someone else, he just doesn't' want to be on the phone that much, he is not interested, you've talked about everything already, etc. You probably heard advices from friends and others already. You would want to hear what you want to hear. My advice, make your decision and stick with it knowing the consequences. Be prepare to be heart-broken either way.
2007-01-22 15:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by tran21t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though he doesn't want to put forth the effort to make a long distance relationship work. If you really want it to work, then make an agreement to talk maybe once a week and see each other as often as possible. If you really like each other, you have to compromise or it won't work.
2007-01-22 15:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by torn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to be rude but just MOVE ON. He's obviously not into you. You can't make him want to be in a long distance relationship. It was great while happened but where did you expect it go.
2007-01-22 15:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drive up their on weekends and visit him and talk to him or maybe he found some else that is closer to him the only way you gonna found out is to surprised him up there good luck
2007-01-22 15:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by tuchulapr0808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definatly move on. He's in it for what he gets when you're together. The rest of the time he just wants to do his own thing and he defiantly doesn't want you getting all atrached. Move on, you'll be fine.
2007-01-22 15:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on baby life is 2 short and you are way to young to be serious make the most of your younger years take from me been there done that wished i hadn't
2007-01-22 15:39:02 · answer #8 · answered by thelma louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not comfortable with it, theres really nothing you can do.
Call him back and discuss ways you guys can see each other.
Do you drive? Drive upp their on weekends and visit him!
2007-01-22 15:34:04 · answer #9 · answered by S. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have just been through this problem! finish it! it will be better in the long run and you can meet someone else that lives closer!
2007-01-22 15:35:17 · answer #10 · answered by blonde bimbo xxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋