Me & my girlfriend are both aries, only 4 days apart. We never argue as arule. But the last to weeks, we fight like cat & dog. Why?
2007-01-22 07:22:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe ya'll are just getting more comfortable with each other and don't have to hide "the bad side" anymore. THat's what happened to me and my boyfriend, we were fighting all the time, then we told each other what we hated about each other, and now we're trying to change or fix it back to the way it used to be, we've been doing better the past few days. It's just that people change, everybody does, they just get comfortable with one person and in a way I guess they take their partners for granted.
2007-01-22 07:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by dreamer620420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same as any other relationship...its all about testing your boundaries and limitations...how far can you push?...a good argument is great for clearing the air here and there but if its becoming an issue why dont you have a chat and decide that the calmer of the 2 of you will, upon an argument erupting, put the phone down...or leave the room ...and you will both spend some time simmering down before you begin another conversation...this time taking it in turns to tell each other how you feel and to listen without interrupting to the other person...try to be positive rather than negative and honest...
it works...
2007-01-22 15:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get another girlfriend start understanding the message you can try and everything will be good for two more weeks then same problem will come back solution is new girlfriend that will last for 2 years without a mayor problem.
if you don't believe me keep trying.
2007-01-22 15:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by Best Dominican 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to look at things from the other person point of view. Depends what the argument is about - as they maybe just bickering! It a sign of healthy relationship - no one agrees with every thing their partner does!
2007-01-22 15:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you don't want to be with each other anymore. You're in denial and haven't the courage to sack it. But the true thing is you don't float one another's boat anymore so stop wasting each other's time and life. Move out. Move on.
2007-01-22 16:18:54 · answer #5 · answered by Hugh Jarce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it that time of the month for her? cuz i no that i get rele touchy about even lil stuff when i have girl problems.
i wouldn't ask her if thats going on, but c if in the next few weeks things go bak to no fighting. it rele might b that simple
2007-01-22 15:26:52 · answer #6 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What has changed over the last two weeks ? Is there any reason for extra stress for either of you ?
2007-01-22 15:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by Well, said Alberto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same position - you are too alike, you both like to be centre of attention and to be right!. It will pass - relationships are like that - up one minute, down the next.
2007-01-22 15:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by Bexs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel,but keep it real
i know u think, you got a bad deal
so listen up, heed my rhyme
fairies argue all the time
git me dude
2007-01-22 15:47:34 · answer #9 · answered by beer buddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your going thru a faze thats all most couples go thru a faze of that after a while of going out.
call it a test
2007-01-22 15:26:20 · answer #10 · answered by rosa_govan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋