My best guy friend recently told our mutual friends that he screwed up when he wouldn't date me!!! I have never stopped liking him. I am now married to a man that I love more than anything but there is this thing that wants to be with my friend. I am so confused. Please don't tell me to stop being friends with him because I can't he has been there for me so many times. I just need guidnace and direction. I am so confused please help!!!
2007-01-22 06:51:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow sweetie, I feel your pain, but you need to think does he really love you? Because if he doesn't then what!!! You will be out a man that truly loves you!! Good Luck
2007-01-22 07:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you absolutely adore your husband, you will not pursue anything with this friend. Just explain to him that he missed out because when you were single, you had feelings for him. Tell him too bad that you are married now so you'll have to forever settle for friendship. Let him know that you adore your husband and wouldn't ever let anything destroy your marriage.
Otherwise, you can turn to the luring life of adultery. I would suggest divorcing your husband if you really must act out any lust for this other guy.
2007-01-22 15:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by downinmn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound really young , you need a break from this friend before you make a mistake you cant take back. its time to grow up you are married now its time to put high school stuff behind you. You married this guy, respect him, yourself , and the marriage.
2007-01-22 15:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by C-Nice44 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in almost the exact same situation as you. I have just convinced myself to stop seeing my friend and only communicate via e-mail. That way...nothing physical will happen. I know it kills you that you can't see him but you're going to have to make this sacrifice for your marriage.
2007-01-22 14:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in that position, but only as the guy. the best advise is not to go through with it unless you are sure thats what you want to do. most likley he will end up wanting to be with you or you will want to be with him, but not hurt your husband, and that is not possible. follow your heart, it will lead you in the right direction.
2007-01-22 14:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by cardsfan420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋