I met this other guy about two months ago and started talking to him often either over the phone or emails. Went out with him for a date once and slept with him. He really wanted to go out with me but I just couldnt coz ofcourse I have a boyfriend.Guy was so dissapointed and said that he was hurt but there's nothing he could do so he started keeping distance. Now I have feelings for him but he says that he really wants to move on and anyway I still have my boyfriend. Bottom line is, am torn between two guys. Please dont hate coz I never saw this (being torn between two)coming but it did.What would you do if you were in my shoes?
2007-01-22 06:48:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, you are torn because you've been intimate with both of them, which you shouldn't have done. I would suggest that you dump your boyfriend since you really don't care for him anyway. Well, if you did, you wouldn't of cheated on him and slept with another man. Anyway, dump your boyfriend and get rid of the thoughts of the "other guy." He got what he wanted and that's the end. Sorry, so sad.
2007-01-22 06:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by downinmn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should leave your other boyfriend because you felt the need to seek someone else. Or, think about it for awhile and if you want to stay with 1.5 years just sit down and talk to him and if he understand and you both come to an agreement you should know what to do. Maybe he feels the same way and is torn between you and someone else? Communication is always really good, along with trust, in any relationship.
2007-01-22 14:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by chichibomba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would of never cheated. But since that is over you need to decide which guy you want to be with. You might just think you have feelings for this new guy because now all of a sudden he doesn't want you. You need to think about this long and hard before you make any decisions. But you should tell your BF that you cheated. He does deserve better!
2007-01-22 14:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know you did wrong by cheating on your boyfriend.
So if you want to pursue this (or any other) guy. Be honest with your boyfriend and break up with him FIRST. It's not right for you to keep him hanging on until you decide what you want. Both of these relationships are tainted. The first one is because you've now cheated on him. The new one is tainted because it started out as an affair.
Break it off with both of them and go start over with someone new.
2007-01-22 14:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by loves2fly84095 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're willing to cheat on your b/f then you don't want to be with him, simple as that. I would say move on, maybe get with the guy you cheated with. Maybe start all over with some single time to be wild and crazy before settling down again.
2007-01-22 14:56:16 · answer #5 · answered by jennifer d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-22 14:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by Último intento 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your boyfriend you need to quit talking to the other guy. If you don't, and would rather be with the second guy, you need to break up with your boyfriend and let this other guy know you are doing what you can to be with him.
2007-01-22 14:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by c.a_durham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump ur original boyfriend tell the guy u slept with you are sorry and YOU move on to some one u want to spend your life with! hanna xo
2007-01-22 14:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're that dissatisfied with your boyfriend that you felt the need to cheat then you should just end the relationship.
2007-01-22 14:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by dolce 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u love ur b/f stay with him and dont ruin ur relationship with him for a fling that may not go anywhere.its useless.
2007-01-22 14:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by marsha w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋