i have been going out with this guy for about 2 weeks and i really like him but i'm not sure if i should be dating him. a lot of people have come up to me and asked me why i'm going out with him because of all this stuff that he has supposedly done. they say he has done so many things with so many girls and that i deserve better and that the only reason hes with me is for sex. i dont know what to do. also hes tried to kiss me many times but i just don't feel comfortable with that or even holding his hand.
2007-01-22 06:46:02 · 8 answers · asked by chicatejana07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rarely do boys every change so I would listen to rumors but I wouldn't be too hasty in breaking it off just yet. You should ask him why so many girls are talking bad about him and what he has done. Let him know that you do like him but are concerned that he is only looking for a score and your interested in a meaningful relationship and not a mark in his book. If he laughs it off or does not give you a honest answer then be leery of his intentions and consider dropping him.
Don't get involved if your not up for heartbreak, remember most boys are not ready for a relationship, they're more worried about feeling good. Don't be surprised if he breaks it off in a week or so when he doesn't get what he wants, if he does stick around then perhaps he does want a relationship with you.
2007-01-22 07:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is something you have to decide for yourself. if you're not feeling comfortable with him than perhaps it's not for you.
if you think it's bout the sex for him and you want something more than just a sexual relationship you really need to sit down and talk to him about it.. but just b/c other people claim he has an active sex life doesn't necessarily mean jack crap.. if he's been w a lot of girls he's not the only guy in this world..and therefor you have to decide if that's comfortable or not for you..
good luck to ya!
2007-01-22 14:51:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course u are not comfortable, because all the stereotype about him, so tell him i never give u anything, i am not a toy to play with her and through me away, show him that u are serious and see if he is serious too, and if he love u or not.. u are clever enough to feel that feelings dear, don't force yourself to do many things before your mind and heart telling u.. good luck
2007-01-22 14:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was in your situation, i think i would just be friends for a while and see how it goes. it seems like you are the type of person to ease into a relationship and she likes to rush into them. if those rumors are true about him sleeping with a lot of other girls, i don't think i would waste my time. i know this is cliche but there are plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-01-22 14:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by aerochik9675 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it in public that you're not comfortable, or completely uncomfortable.
If your not comfortable at all, I'd say forget it, cause then the relationship won't work...
2007-01-22 14:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by Redfox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't even hold his hand you must not like him that much.
Break up.
2007-01-22 15:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by Dave B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you confortable in puplic or not at all if not at all than dump him its not worth dating anyone your not comfortable with
2007-01-22 14:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-01-22 14:48:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋