I have am major crush on a guy that I am so obsessed. His name is Chad and I can't stop thinking about him. I know that this is a bad thing but I can't get over him. I am in head over heels in love with him. Can you help me?
2007-01-22 06:45:03 · 19 answers · asked by xoxMeaghanoxo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
would u want a guy who could so easily break up with someone else for u? he is with someone else, would u want another girl to do this to u? just not good business. shows lack of compassion and goodwill toward others to even think such a thing. means u want to go after someone Else's man without a care to how the other girl would feel, means you may have some selfishness issues, and no there isn't really anyway of getting someone unless u throw yourself on him, do things with him she doesn't do. but than if he would do that he may be just a shallow guy and not be what u are really looking for.
2007-01-22 06:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if Chad already has a g/friend.......there's nothing you can do other than try to stop obsessing over him. It's a Crush* , and that is all it is. You can't be totally head over heels in LOVE with him....think about it........If he dumps her to go out with you....then what kind of a guy is he? You see some sweet eye candy....who's taken...so it makes the chase a lil more exciting for you but don't waste your time and energy* Find some other "eye candy" who IS available and go for it*~
2007-01-22 06:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you get something from the store without paying? It's called stealing! Same concept.
It's really not fair to the woman in the relationship with Chad. Try to think about if YOU were going out with him and some obsessed girl was trying to steal him!
The only thing you can do is tell him you like him and if he isn't serious in his relationship, if he'd like to break it off with and go with you. If he says no then you really need to move on and fall in love with someone who wants you too.
2007-01-22 06:50:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You couldn't possibly be head over heels in love with him...call it just obsessed, and maybe infatuation. Figure out what it is that attracts you to him and list that in the things you are looking for in a partner. Otherwise, he has a gf and he would not have a gf if they didn't have something going for them. Since he has noticed her and not you, seems he's not into you, so find yourself another guy. Move on.
2007-01-22 06:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oof. Sorry, hon, but there's not much you can do. Considering he's taken, I'd try to forget about him.
If you become too obsessed, it can do some serious emotional damage for you and quite possibly Chad and his girlfriend.
Sorry, but it sounds to me a bit like puppy love, too. So keep your options open! Don't waste your affection on someone who's not going to return it.
2007-01-22 06:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't WIN a guy..he's not a prize to be won and you are not competing in a contest against his girlfriend. He HAS a girlfriend, therefore is NOT single and not available. Wait until things fizzle out between him and his girlfriend or move on. In the meantime, don't try breaking up their relationship--that ain't cool!
2007-01-22 06:48:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are head over heels. If you had a man would you want someone trying to take him. This all goes back to the saying "Treat others the way you want to be treated."
2007-01-22 06:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by so sophisticated 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't.
Plus, even if you DID get the guy, how do you know that some other girl won't steal him away from you like you did to the girlfriend?
Like the first answerer said, don't be a homewrecker, cuz that's what you'd be if you tried anything while he was taken.
2007-01-22 06:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by Terri 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You wait until he is single - if that ever happens and you're still intersted then make your move. Otherwise - you will get a bad reputation by attempting to break up his relationship and NOBODY will be interested in being involved with you.
2007-01-22 06:55:58 · answer #9 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, let there relationship fizzle out before you jump in there. Don't try to break them up. He will only think of you as selfish and immature.
2007-01-22 06:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋