so ya me nd my boyfriend just started going out nd i want to have sex but im nervous because iv only had sex twice in my life. So how do i become comfortable with this?
2007-01-22 06:29:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Grow up, fall in love, and be in a committed relationship with him.
Don't give yourself away to a guy you just met. You are worth much more than that. Sex with people you recently met, or have been dating for a short while is not good for you. You are worth much much more than that.
You are uncomfortable because it's wrong.
2007-01-22 06:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you know him much better. Otherwise, if you have sex with a stranger he may well remain a stranger. If he pushes for sex before you've gotten to know him and became more comfortable with each other, run away as fast as you can. That's a good sign that this guy is not the right one for you. Good Luck
2007-01-22 06:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is dazzling that you've got here across someone you adore and loves you lower back. have self belief me it really is not person-friendly for rather some us to locate. i have under no circumstances had sex both yet i have continually needed it to be very particular and under no circumstances rushed or lower than any stress. in case you want to do it on the prompt purely because you do not imagine you receives yet another probability then i do not imagine you should do it. If it is meant to be then there'll be yet yet again for you so that you'll be able to make it more suitable particular. imagine about it, you're purely going to lose your virginity as quickly as a results of the undeniable fact that is going to be magical.
2016-10-15 22:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I adjure you that you do not arouse or awaken my love until she pleases. - God
This idea of waiting till you 18 to have sex sucks and is a burden. You should be able to get married instead of burning with passion... Sex outside of marriage is a bad idea. Will your future husband appreciate you being a virgin? Disease or pregnancy? Use condoms the lubricated type and don’t skimp go Trojan... they are what 98% affective when actually used and used right. I don't recommend birth control pills because of the side affects like hairy lip. I do recommend learning when you are most likely to conceive a child... but since you’re convinced to have sex... and don't care about getting married.... do you at least enjoy it? And who are you trying to please? I recommend warming yourself up getting yourself wet and making him prove himself as an adequate lover before penetration... Also avoid oral sex and anal sex it leads to a degenerate mindset. Hand jobs are ok but anything other than direct deposit with the intention of providing your man a child seems disingenuous. You should expect a hand job from him… if he can’t get you off with his fingers he doesn’t know his way around and needs some schooling. A strip tease for the guy is nice but making him undress you slowly can be fun or you undressing him. Are your breasts sensitive, do you like to kiss, do you like strong hands running over your body, and do you want him to grab your *** or pin you down? Maybe you need to be in charge on top with him tied down. It’s all personal and what works for you…. So you want to become comfortable? Do you trust him, do you need to trust him, is he going to be around afterwards, do you expect him to cuddle or stay the night… do you trust he doesn’t have a disease that he is not married or have a dozen babies of his own? What do you expect from him does he know that? Are you comfortable with yourself and your body cause most guys will put there ***** in any hole just to get off.
2007-01-22 07:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by Bart H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont bcum comfortable. u gotta feel ready 2 do it with him wen its right u will want him 2 share that intimatcy with u and u will feel comfortable about it u will have sum nerves still coz its the 1st time u n ur nu bf doin it but he will b just as nervouse so dont worry 2 much. just relax and if u change ur mind and dont want 2 go thru with it at that point in time tell him u dont feel ready ur sorry 4 leading him on but u want 2 w8 a lil more b4 u do. if hes a decent lad he will respect ur wishes it will b fine and he'll w8 as long as it takes
2007-01-22 06:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by blossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is new in your life, don't go doing something that you will regret. Sometimes we are nervous because are hearts are telling us that it's not the right thing. Cool your jets, get to know the guy, "date" the guy for a while, let things come naturally. Don't RUSH anything, that's when you get hurt.
Oh yes, don't forget to use protection.
2007-01-22 06:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, try kissing a lot, touching each other before you take off your clothes. Do some sensual dancing together, it always helps me relax. Kiss some more. Then kiss and touch a lot as you take your clothes off. Then make sure that you have a long, slow foreplay to help you relax. Good luck, enjoy!
2007-01-22 06:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know each other a little longer and you'll get comfortable, naturally. Don't rush it - you wouldn't want him to have sex with you and leave.
Don't give your goods too early in any relationship!
2007-01-22 06:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by downinmn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you are really young. If you are not comfy with sex than just wait it out intil you are 100% comfortable. YOU shouldn't force it.
2007-01-22 06:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If sex is what your b-friend is all about, I'd get rid of him. And if sex is the only way you can have a relationship, you better rethink your thinking.
2007-01-22 06:34:58 · answer #10 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋