I have been talking to this guy for about a month and a half now. I'm really feeling him, but I don't know if he completely feels the same. The problem is he has a bad habit of not keeping his word. There has been a couple times that he has told me he would call me back, or he was going to come over, and he ended up not doing it. He always calls me the next day with an excuse. We both are seniors in college, and work so our schedules are pretty busy. He seems interested me, and we have a wonderful time together...I have no other problems with him but it really frustrates me when he does this! am i being paranoid/uptight? should i just stop talking to him?? PLEASE GUYS give me an idea of what could be going on!
2007-01-22 06:19:57 · 8 answers · asked by Bird's_Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm... not sure if you feel intuitively that his excuses are just that... or perhaps not. Make yourself unavailable for a bit and see if he comes to you on his own.
2007-01-22 06:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by validemails 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the time you get to spend with him but don't expect anything serious.
I had a friend who would do the same thing. It bugged the hell out of me.
I realized that if I were in a relationship with this person it would drive me crazy.
I enjoyed the time spent together but I also dated other people.
2007-01-22 14:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Guess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your friend is flakey. You can accept the fact that his flakeyness is meaingless and chose your friend or don't. If you don't and you try to date him....well let's just say you will be rather disappointed. If you go with the first choice then if won't really matter, and you will just work around the flake.
2007-01-22 14:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by Trevor L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen sweetheart, this guy is doing other things and it probably involves other women...you should never go with a guy thats not honest and or considerate!
get rid of him
2007-01-22 14:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well firstly every guy likes to have his space
secondly when ur in college ur so busy and you dont get much time
you should relax
atleast he does try
2007-01-22 14:25:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does this alot, it is probably part of his personality and won't change. If you don't like that about him, you probably want to look elsewhere!
2007-01-22 14:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may have someone else.
2007-01-22 14:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by tydurd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try stop talking temporarily
2007-01-22 14:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋