Okay, i have been friends with this guy for a long time now... I'm like really starting to fall for him! But, the thing is he has a gf... She goes to college so she isn't around much. We hang out just about everyday, and on the weekends. We have already done things with each other,and i think that's why i like him so much! He is very sweet to me, and he has a great personality! He has told me he loves me, and when i'm not with him he tells me how much he misses me! Him and his gf do nothing but fight, i don't even know why he is still with her! We had went somewhere over the weekend and spent the night with two other friends, and i just had the time of my life! Should i just leave him alone, or just keep tryin'? I mean who knows we may actually be together in the long run.... Please Help!....
2007-01-22 06:18:44 · 24 answers · asked by *Red Hotts* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You really have to ask yourself.......If he did break up with her to be with you would you ever be able to trust him. If you think you could have a good relationship with him after all that then talk to him about it. Whatever you do don't waste you time on anyone who doesn't deserve it. :)
2007-01-22 07:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by netlee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out how he truly feels about the gf. Some guys play that role about being on the verge of breaking up with their gf just to get in your panties. He really needs to decide soon, 'cause right now you're messing with someone else's man. Do you think he'll do the same if you have to go away somewhere?????
2007-01-22 14:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ebony B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're dreaming. In the process, do whatever makes you happy and feels good. None of you are married so you're not breaking any laws. Just don't expect too much from a guy who's playing more than one woman at a time. After all, if you allow it now, don't be calling him a cheater and a dog if he does it to you later.
2007-01-22 14:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know him and his g/f fight all the time? is he telling you this? Since his g/f is never around you really have no clue about what is going on in their relationship...i understand your really feeling him but it is really shitty that he is talking to another girl while he is in a relationship with someone else. how would you feel if you were in his g/f's situation? and if him and his girlfriend are really having such issues why is he still with her? i wouldn't trust the situation..you don't want to end up being "the other girl" or even worse, some "fling". i think you might want to talk to him about his relationship status...if he still decides he wants to be with his girl then you need to move on...you don't want to end up getting your feelings hurt in the end, do you?
2007-01-22 14:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by Bird's_Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you two like each other so well then keep trying. like you said you may be together in the long run. maybe it was meant to be. you don't know unless you try so go get him. you'll be glad you put forth the effort and i'm sure he will be too. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-01-22 14:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep tryin. The relationship he's committed to now is bound to fall through, or he's going to see the light and just dump her for you. It will happen. Just be patient.
2007-01-22 14:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just tell him how you really feel for him. He's not going to know unless you tell him. And who knows by doing that you might find out he feels the same way about you also.
2007-01-22 14:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by edboy_9420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you want to be with him but you can't until he ends his relationship with his g/f. If he doesn't end it with her then you'll know what his real intentions are with you. Maybe you're just a convenience since his g/f is away. Tell him the truth...that you're really falling for him and you want him all to yourself.
2007-01-22 14:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does his girl know about you? If its like that then you need to tell him how you feel, and possibly make a decision on what he wants. Don't be the other girl, it only leads to broken feelings in the end.
2007-01-22 14:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you should tell him how u feel, he may feel the same way about you. It's not like they are married or a serious relationship. Good Luck!!!!!
2007-01-22 14:25:43 · answer #10 · answered by Fallin out of Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋