Basically i was without a g/f for a while and i was kinda desperate.
I met this girl at soccer and she started hitting on me. Basically she was aggressive and I liked it. We started seeing each other and now shes my g/f. The problem is I'm not really attracted to her. She has a nice body but I am not attracted to her face. And before you think I'm shallow, I don't really like her personality very much either, I dont think we click. Her smile makes me feel uncomfortable and most worryingly I had trouuble performing in bed with her. What should I do?
Also she just got me a gift (the first) and I havent given her one yet back. Should I get her a gift even though there is a possiblity I might wanna break up with her soon.
2007-01-22 06:14:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't wanna break up with her because I think she could be fun as a friend (and I think i would risk losing her completely) Plus -how do i put it cleanly- I dont wanna go back to watching erotica and auto-pleasing myself again like a loser.
2007-01-22 06:30:06 · update #1
Sounds like you should just give her back the gift she gave you and tell her you'd rather just be friends. You're just lying to both of you if you keep pretending you're attracted to her (which she obviously thinks since she's your GIRLFRIEND).
Be an adult and come clean, but I'd advise against going into details unless she presses you. If you don't like the way she looks AND her personality, why are you wasting your time with her? Just to have a girlfriend? Sounds like you'd be better off being single.
2007-01-22 06:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by JJ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont giv her gifts and mess the things even further.... if u havent been attracted why u still gone 2 bed with her?
Whatever, sit with her, talk with her and say u think u guys are going too fast and need to slow down & rethink abt the relationship as you aint sure where we are heading.
Plz be nice to this girl no matter how she looks.... u have a problem and its your responsibility to break up with her peacefully without feeling her bad about herself.... I hope everythings work greats for you.
2007-01-22 06:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by Romps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is treat her so bad that she wants to break up with you. You cant lose, you eventually get rid of her and you get the fun of demeaning her and the joy of seeing how much you can humiliate her before she leaves you. Plus later on after she has left you and you run into her you can make fun of of all the dirty and or disgusting things she did trying to please you in front of her friends
2007-01-22 06:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by Adolph Oliver Busch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give a gift.
For what? HTats sending mixed messages.
Tell her youd ont know what you want. And youw ant to be single and remail friends later on.
Dont let her think something that is not- cause it will be so much worse later.
2007-01-22 06:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her, then in the following weeks act more and more clingy and needy. She'll be out of your hair in no time.
2007-01-22 06:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by Eddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her back the gift and explain to her that you don't think it's gonna work out.
2007-01-22 06:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by ravred300 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a gift and be nice
2007-01-22 06:17:42 · answer #7 · answered by rudyspuddin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not like her because you have performance issues
2007-01-22 06:18:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quick make up your mind whato do
2007-01-22 06:19:20 · answer #9 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
control your emotions
2007-01-22 06:17:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋