What should i do if my best-friend DUMPS me at school?
Also how can i DEAL with it?
Well i went to school, ok so then i text my friend asking her out to lunch until she text me back saying: Well i'm gonna be honest i have a boyfriend so i'm cool with being friends but if u are looking for anything else, its not a good time! *Amber*.. Yes that is what she said back to me. Although her and i met on last Thursday at gym class yes i asked for her #, then she gave it to me. Although i thought her and i were more than best-friends? Although how can i try to bring back our friendship? What else is next?
Please give me any ADVICE on what should i do about this hard-time that i am FACING right here and right now.
2007-01-22 05:32:24 · 6 answers · asked by Sewer Tank 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I do not want to sound cold, but that is life this may have been the first time but it will not be the last get use to it.
2007-01-22 05:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by norsmen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k. Are you a lesbian? If so tell Amber that you are not interested in her that way and you just want to be friends. If you are not a lesbian you might be to clingy to where it made her uncomfortable enough to tell you that she has a boyfriend. I also think that a week or two is to soon to know if she is going to be your best friend or not. If you don't have a lot of friends and your not sure how to go about making friends just be cool and let your friendship bloom. Don't be in such a hurry.
2007-01-22 13:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by saphire732003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uummm you sound kind of like a stalker to be blantly honest
what is more than best freinds do mean like lovers?
the reality of what is going on here is that she is just an aquaintance if i read this right you just got her number last week?
and you reffering to her as your best freind? 1. she's not your bestfriend 2.she want to be freinds with you but has a boyfreind
meaing that he is mor important than you which as get older it's just the way things work i garuntee that this wont be the frist time a freind will start hanging out with a guy more than you
3.how to deal... just deal she's going to do what she wants to do
you cant control her just start hanging out with who ever is next on your stalker list or next best freind (i really dont know what to make of this)
2007-01-22 13:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
deal with it in a smooth way. she was unaware of your interest, apparently. Just move on as though it's cool and you understand. Being a best friend means through good & bad. I think you should stick it out and continue to give her what she needs from you. :) She may just end up with you after all!
2007-01-22 13:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it takes more then a week to become bestfriends with someone. Just because she has a boyfriend does not mean you cant be friends, she even said you guys can be friends.
2007-01-22 16:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by angel01182 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to keep in mind most kids(teenaagers, young adults) are not being taught how to handle themselves in friendships/relationships............so do NOT see this as a reflection on/of you...........this is not your prob its hers
2007-01-22 14:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋