internet dating?

Question

what is the most effective way to first email someone your intersted in?

Answer 1

Babe,

please!!!! dating thru internet isn't for decent people. Only thing you will find is confusion....stress and indecentcy!!!!

Answer 2

I tried it through craigslist. I'm fairly creative, so I got plenty of responses. About 90% of the people on dating sites have some serious emotional issues. They are usually dishonest, some just do it for the responses as a way to pump up their ego.

There were a few that I would communicate quite a bit with. Some would offer to start calling, eventually most of them just fell off the map for no discernable reason.

I did have a couple good dates. You will find that it is a womens market as there is about 10 times as many men on the sites. Women feel a little odd about making a profile, and those that do probably feel very scared about the responses they get.

I made a profile once in the womens section, No where did I even indicate or make false claims that I was a woman. The responses I got were indeed interesting.

Moral of the story, go meet people out in public. Use internet dating just as something fun.

Answer 3

Well, first you have to meet them online, usually as part of a dating site like Match, eHarmony, Yahoo Personals, or a social networking site like MySpace, Friendster, etc. The dating sites charge a fee, but offer a lot of good basic advice, and you know everyone there is interested in dating.
Email the person and introduce yourself (name, general location, interests, work/school). Say something like, "Hey, I saw your profile and you seem really interesting, I'd really like to get to know you." Ask them a follow-up question to something in their posting to get the conversation going - "I liked that picture of you waterskiing at Lake Tahoe, it looked so fun! Do you go up there often? Do you like intense sports or was it a one-time adventure?"
Remember to check your spelling and grammar - it makes a much better impression.

Answer 4

First of all, don't use the generic approach that the site gives you..it's common and worn out...try your own approach 1st. Ask her to take a look at your profile and if she's interested to email you back.Too many guys pressure women online too fast..keep it simple and sweet

Answer 5

just the typical short introductory hey i saw u on blah blah site then say something about their profile that you liked even if it was only the pic. Ask a q or two then just leave things open for convo.

Answer 6

Just be upfront and honest i met my now husband and the father of my 2 boys on the internet and couldnt be happier of course he mad all the moves but all you have to do is be honest with them

Answer 7

just find something you will like to ask about and start from there. It could be something you aready know.

Answer 8

i'm trying to figure out the same thing =D

Answer 9

idk, but im tryin to figure that out too