ok here goes, i fell in love with this girl,we were crazy about each other,she went to college early , i shipped to basic, , we were both faithful,i get bac and i move to where she goes to college, we live together,find out were having a baby,learn more about each other,after the baby is born, she says shes been unhappy for a while and breaks our yearlong engagement,2 yrs of being together and ends everything bcuz she says,im not romantic enough,i dont pay her enough attention,she said that we had too much sex, well not even a month later she has sex with a guy she liked and when she was preg that she did lots of cleaning up and she shoudnt have to do all of that,yet i gave her as much as i could,i tried to do some things, when i thought of them, i was the only one working and trying to pay all the bills and all of that,and now she's all googly eyed for some other guy ,,i lost my car,apt,and job,WHAT DO U THINK IS A GOOD WAY TO GET OVER THINGS, she's a good girl though really
2007-01-22 05:25:00 · 5 answers · asked by Greenknight87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well how does that work, where should i start
2007-01-22 05:33:32 · update #1
as i have said before only time will heal, now i would recommend going out and having fun to help keep your mind off of these things, just do things you enjoy doing. heck get out and go on dates too, that will help. try to get all your bills straightened out and over time you will be back to normal....good luck.
2007-01-30 00:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many girls would kill to find a guy like you. Focus on yourself..
start to work on getting your life back on track. Put all your energy into positive things for you. While you are working on you and getting your stuff in order (getting a job, apt, car, meeting new people) you will look back and say thank God I did not stay with her. It takes 2 people to work at a relationship. Time heals although it hurts as we are waiting for time to pass.
2007-01-30 10:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by Kat G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, make sure that baby is yours- seriously. The only real way to deal with whats happening to you is to just keep moving forward. Keep your chin up and keep telling yourself that your stronger than this situation. Keep yourself buisy. Rely on your family and friends for support and advise, thats what they're there for. As far as the girl goes, dont waste your time wanting to be with someone that dosent want to be with you. Good Luck!
2007-01-30 06:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by deere73 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get over things is to accept what happened. She obviously doesn't love you back. Let go of the feelings that you have for and try to date again.
2007-01-30 13:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not about getting over it, but working through it. That means dealing with your emotions.
2007-01-22 13:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by ropemancometh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋