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my man thinks he is the bomb. he swears he is well off finacially but don't buy me things. i mean he pays the rent and i pay all the bills, but he swears he is god and he always has large amounts of money in his pocket. my question is that if he is well off, why is he so cheap. what u think.

2007-01-22 05:17:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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It probably boosts his self-esteem to brag about how much money he has, and it also boosts his self-esteem to control it. Or maybe he is not as well off as he wants you to think. It sounds to me like he has low self-esteem and wants to feel important, and somehow this satisfies that need. If he really has that much money, and he can't buy you anything, then I would say he is stingy, self-serving, and a controlling....

2007-01-22 05:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0 0

I think he may be into some illegal things with large amounts of cash in his pocket. WHO walks around with large amounts of cash in their pockets?? If he is well off financially he would have a thing called a CREDIT CARD and would use that instead of flaunting it around. People with "money" don't flash wadds of cash around*
Money isn't everything but once in a while to buy you something or take you out to dinner to appreciate you.....would be nice.....but if he feels he's God* and he swears by it.........You need to leave him and move on without him* He's DOUBLE TROUBLE and a full of himself. Who would want to be with someone like that???

2007-01-22 05:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0 0

Good day! hit is wise not to be boasting about your manliness and your possession of money.let him know that there is a time and a place for every thing. so there is coming a time when he will be humbled. you also mentioned about he pays the rent. does he buys clothes for you and carry you to dinners my piont is does he treat you and with repect all the times. does he value you and the relationship over his manliness and possessions if yes be ware of future truobles ok

2007-01-22 05:43:42 · answer #3 · answered by godman b 2 · 0 0

Rich people have lots of money. They have lots of money because they don't spend it. My rich relatives are the same way. Literally shop at the second hand store for out dated clothes so they can save money.

2007-01-22 05:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0 0

No matter how attractive
if you come off like a douchbag
thats how women are going to look at you.

Now confidence is a good thing
Vanity not so much

2007-01-22 05:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by jameses 2 · 0 0

Guys who are really mature and capable of having a great relationship would never brag about his money.
That shows how very insecure he is, and how low where he came from.

2007-01-22 05:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

he could desire to of mentioned some hurtful issues so verify out it this way, you're able to get yet another shot. do you experience greater powerful because of the fact of what he mentioned? in case you do, then it labored. i did no longer ask you what you theory-approximately what he mentioned, I mentioned did it make you experience greater powerful? i'm prepared to guess it did.

2016-11-26 19:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Confidence is a plus
Arrogance is a turn off.

Sounds like your guy is the latter.
I would dump him, and find someone who is more down to earth,

2007-01-22 05:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Guess 3 · 0 0

If he has to brag that much about how much money he has something is definitely wrong with him. He's trying to cover up his flaws or imperfections.

2007-01-22 05:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well i think men that are full of themselves need to just get a life personally, because it'll get so annoying when they just talk about themselves all the time. so if you're having problems with him just sit down & talk because won't he feel stupid if you leave him because he is so vain.

2007-01-22 05:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by Elizabeth M 1 · 0 0

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