I mean, my sister (15) will bring home a friend or two and my mind starts to wander......and well, you know, I am a man - mid twenties. Don't tell me I am a freak - my sis tells me about all the looks she gets from you forty-something men. I am just wondering about whether you think it's right or wrong, or neither, really, as long as it's kept at the fantasy level....
2007-01-22 04:55:44 · 13 answers · asked by Philip Kiriakis 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't move this past fantasy and you should know its the innocence that your attracted to and believe it or not there are women out there who are 18 and older and still have that :) :) :)
2007-01-22 04:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong to fantasize, I mean you are male! All men have fantasies, my husband tells me that men are 90% visual when it come to s-e-x. I think the point is, as an ADULT male, you are supposed to have maturity to know right from wrong and the ability to make the choice, THAT is the difference. And honestly... when I was 16 & 17 and date men in their 20's. I never saw anything wrong with it. It's all based on the maturity level of people.
2007-01-22 13:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe it is wrong. Because usually "as a man thinketh, so is he." Most actions begin as merely a thought. The more you fantasize, the more likely you are to act on your fantasies in time.
And the forty-something men that are looking at your sister are perverts, plain and simple!
2007-01-22 13:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by LaraSue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel about older men looking at your sister? That's how the girls' brothers and fathers would feel about you...Fantasy has a tendency to turn into reality, so watch yourself. Statutory rape charges will haunt you the rest of your life. How would you feel if it were your own daughter? Consider what you would do if a man nearly twice your daughter's age expressed interest. Everytime we discuss this topic, my husband says, "I have a .45 and a shovel. I doubt anyone would miss you."
2007-01-22 15:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by Another Nickname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are harmless. The attempt to fulfill them often is what would be considered immoral and/or illegal. Enjoy the fantasies. Don't act on them, at least until they are of legal age of consent and preferably bona fide adults.
2007-01-22 13:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think it's wrong as long as it remains a fantasy. It would only becomes a problem if you tried to act out your fantasies in real life.
2007-01-22 13:03:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a freak. It's not right imo but in 3 years it wouldn't be wrong. What it means is you need to get something to keep your mind off them and on something more your age.
2007-01-22 13:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yeah it kinda is wrong. you should try to keep your mind from wondering cuz them fantacies could start to come to life if a younger girl tries to hit on you. like say one of your sisters friend gets a little crush on you and you find out your going to want that girl. we all know thats illegal. well good luck i hope you can stop having these little fantacies.
2007-01-22 13:06:43 · answer #8 · answered by tina2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if they are attractive they are attractive, bottom line. its just that if you act on it you become the pedifile............... i am 33 by the way and nothing wrong with it its a mans nature, just dont act on it unless she is 18 or older
2007-01-22 13:02:35 · answer #9 · answered by olzap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it aint worong. Just don't act out those fantasies!!
2007-01-22 13:23:06 · answer #10 · answered by Tanson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋