help im a lonely?

Question

i had a boy but he died by kill hime slef and i dont want to date agen

Answer 1

it will take some time to get over the loss of a loved one and i can understand that you feel you never want to date agen you probably feel this way bacause you are afraid you will forget about him but you wont dont worry! dont rush into meeting some one just wait till you feel comftable and explain what happen to him and then they can take it at your speed! and remember everyone has diffrent ways of greeving! you will be ok i promise! sorry to hear by the way! x x x x

Answer 2

I don't blame you. I would feel the same way for a long time. It takes quite a while to get over the guilt and believe me when I say it was not your fault. He was going to kill himself anyway, and there would have been nothing you could have done to stop him. Get off the computer and start talking to some people in real life here. Take the time you need to grieve for the boyfriend. Someday you will feel different.

Answer 3

Of course you're lonely, because you are in 'grief' and it's normal to feel like you've 'been abandoned' and even more normal because your boy committed suicide. You also could be 'clinically depressed' and you should see a Mental Health 'counselor' to talk about your deep feelings, and possibly get on medication for awhile if that is needed. You'll want to date again, and that will come a lot 'sooner' than you think it will now ... but you NEED TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FIRST right now. GOOD LUCK.

Answer 4

CAN YOU SOME OF YOU PEOPLE PLEASE BE A LITTLE MORE SENSITIVE!!! The way you feel is quite normal, I've been divorced since 1997 and haven't had a really serious relationship since. But you will feel better in time, trust me. Take time for yourself and to grieve for him, and, if in time, you still feel that loss than you do need to seek therapy or counseling. The best way to find someone else is to reach out to others first, to be supportive of other people who have had/having similar issues and to lend a listening ear when you can. You can't go through the rest of your life alone, as much as you think you can at the moment, so seek others - try attending religious services/singles groups through your church, singles activities in your area, or if there are none available where you live, Internet sites are a great way to reach out to others and meet new people, but please be careful in any activity you undertake to meet someone. I truly feel sorry for your loss, but in time you will find someone who will bring you happiness.

Answer 5

Give it some time...my wife went to the spirt too: in time you'll only remember the good times and the sad memories will become more like a near forgotten dream.Take care

Answer 6

Yeah, Pretty Sad... But don't let that keep you down...

start by doing some exercise... going to the Gym is a SUPER GOOD Start... take some lessons ans work.

Keep your mind busy.

I guarantee you, you'll feel a lot better !

Best Wishes 4 You !

Answer 7

You're only 10 years old, go watch sesame street and take a nap.

Answer 8

that awful but you cannot stop living your life because of what happen just get out there and have fun yeah you can grief but don't live lonely because of the situation it may be hard to overcome but visit family and friends to talk to then start living your life

Answer 9

Ignore the previous reply from the ignorant bastard . Give yourself time to grieve and then when you feel ready and less vulnerable , go out and meet someone new.

Answer 10

You should see a therapist to straighten out all you have stored inside. The sooner the better!