my question is sex before marrage wrong if NO y do people always call a girl who sleeps with her boyfriend a ***** idont know about other places atlease in india people make so much fuss about it is wrong or right
2007-01-22 04:48:42 · 9 answers · asked by gem_gopi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In and of itself, sex before marraige is morally neutral. What makes it a "wrong" action is the cultural standards of a given area of geography. The addition of common double standards regarding extra-marital/pre-marital sex assuredly does not make matters any better. (Men who 'score' frequently are often applauded for whatever reason, whereas women who do the same thing are often labelled a Bad Word for whatever reason.)
It seems that the likely reason for pre-marital sex bieng labeled as "wrong" dates back to before recorded history. Between the likelyhood of pregnancy and, especially nowadays, contracting STD's with unprotected sex, pre-marital sex is not something which should be done lightly. (It often is, but that is another story.) The cultural wieght dating so far back is what, even now, makes it commonly considered taboo.
In a day and age where birth control methods are commonly available, as well as condoms, sex when not married is less of a taboo issue. However, the risks are still there, albiet greatly mitigated by the proper use of contraceptives.
2007-01-22 04:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not whether its wrong or right, it all depends on how you feel. If you don't want to do it then don't. You are the only one that can decide. I know some cultures are very hard on this theme but if you feel it is right and understand the consequence then take a decision.
2007-01-22 12:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by just me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it's wrong according to the bible. Just because everybody else does it doesn't make it right. That's one of the reason why today many people have so many issues
2007-01-22 12:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by unknown 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
many people have faiths that believe sex is wrong before marriage.. but i think sex before marriage should be up to you.. and if you think its right then its right.. if you dont then fine!.. but theres no right r wrong anser so you just have to make you own mind up about that one!...
2007-01-22 12:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religiously yes. In todays world no. Personally i dont know anybody who waits. I guess just do it when it feels right.
2007-01-22 12:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by Takita F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a strong feeling that you should wait then wait but don't rush through things noone can answer that with a correct answer it is what you believe is right and don't care what others think
2007-01-22 13:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's wrong. If people don't perceive it to be wrong then there is clearly something wrong with them.
2007-01-22 12:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by The Dude 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its not wrong you both get what you want.Either way if you dont someone else will.People are hypocrites
2007-01-22 12:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by javi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely wrong!
2007-01-22 12:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by speedmaztyr 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋