Mom at 16 please help?

Question

Im 16 and pregnant and I dont know how to tell my parents my mom is very emotional and my dad is very agresive how can i tell my parents im realy scared

Answer 1

dont listen to mean people.i was 18 when i found out i am pregnant and my parents were the same.i didnt told them and i ran away from home,one of my cousins help me with a job and i saved some money.my parents found out from some relatives.I AM NOT TELLING U TO RUN AWAY FROM HOME but i can tell u that my parents were very rough on me(i met with them again before 2 weeks due time) but still they were near me.and when my daughter started growing they changed their thinking and they love her a lot-they are great grandparents now.
maybe ur parents will be very rough on u to,maybe ur dad wil hit u(like mine did),and ur mom will call u bad names,(i hope not),maybe they will want you to have an abortion,but they are your parents and they need to know about this.they are the only one that can help u.try to talk to ur mom.it will be very hard on them to find out that u are pregnant and u are 16 but if u give them time they will get used with the situation.
i really hope it will work for u.this is my e-mail address:[e-mail]
feel free to send me an e-mail and i will try to advise u as much as i can.i was a single mom for a while and i know how it is to be young and pregnant.

Answer 2

You should ve ready to accept the fact that this is not going to be something they want to hear, so be ready to see your mom cry and your dad telling you how bad he feels about and how big of a mistake you made, but after that, they are your parents and the child is not to blame for what happend, he deserves a love and caring family and your parents will realize that over time, if you don't think you can handle this alone, go to someone else you trust, a family member or some other adult that you and your parents trust and care for!! and tell him or her all about it so that both of you can figure it out together, the best way to let out the news to your parents, that adult can probably be the one to tell your parents while you are present, or he can be with you when you give the news to your parents!! It will be a very difficult time but keep this in mind!!! It will pass, nothing last forever and you will have better days coming your way!!! Take care of you and your little one, he deserves the best!!! GOOD LUCK and I pray for you to have all the support you need and that you really learned of your mistakes!!GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU SAFE!!

Answer 3

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Answer 4

First of all, do not listen those who use this forum to reprimand and judge you! Everyone makes mistakes and choices that bring about events that alter their lives....you are not alone. You should first decide what you want to do about your pregnancy. People, such as myself, are looking and hoping for a child to adopt - so there is always that option. And, if keeping the baby is your choice, you should try to have a plan.(GED, College, job etc.) So that when you approach your parents you can say - I am pregnant, and even though I know you are dissapointed, and I am very scared...here is what plans I have made. That will go a long way in reassuring them that you are going to be mature enough to deal with this. Take care of yourself!! God Bless!!

Answer 5

There is no easy way to tell your parents, they are going to be very upset and who could blame them, hunny if you didn't want to have to go through this then you should have taken more precautions or just not had sex. but since you are already in this predicament you really need to do some thinking and evaluate your life and how things are going to change for you drastically. You just need to come out and tell your parents before you get too far along. I am sorry that you have to go through this at such a tender age, but if you do keep your baby ( not meaning by not getting an abortion meaning if you don't want to do adoption ) things for you are going to be really rough especially if you don't have a good support team or if the father wants nothing to do with this child. Sounds like you have a lot to think about and some growing up to do real quick. Good luck on telling your parents. and I wish you the best of luck in whatever you decide to do.

Answer 6

hello,
I was thinking can you go to your school and talk to your guidence c. and then they may be able to help you with your parents? Or what about the baby's father's parents? how are they? or a reg teacher you like and trust, or do you have a best friend's mom who can help you? I know its hard and scarey but everything will be ok, and think about your health and your baby's ok....if all else just will have to come out and tell them with out help. But I would think about what I said you can do..I would start with somene at school....(teacher) I dont know where you live I know where I'm at there are places, who will and can help you now and through the pregnacy and after the baby is here. Wish luck and if you want you may get ahold of me.....mom of 2

Answer 7

You've just got to tell them. You aren't going to want to do it, they aren't going to want to hear it but it's better just to get it off your chest. There are going to be some tense moments and times ahead but things will get better. The only thing that is going to make the feelings invovled in this get better is time and time is wasting! Just tell your mom first and go from there. Maybe she can tell your dad.

BTW don't listen to these people who have to make snarky remarks about being adult enough to have sex or why you didn't use birth control. Things happen. People make decisions that aren't really the best. Life will go on, this may just change your course a bit.

Answer 8

The main issue at the moment is not your fear. Your concern should be in what is the best interest of the child you are bringing into this world. I recommend you think seriously about adoption because given your age I don't see how you can care for and raise your baby. You messed up your life - admit it! Be responsible about it and do the right thing. Your parents will have to get over it. Your child never will!

Answer 9

If it impossible to talk to mom and dad.. why not try and talk to someone else in the family that you can confide in. I was in your situation at one point tho i was 17 but i felt it easier to talk to my mom rather than my step father. So BF and i talked to her first and went from there. Tho BF and i was already engaged it is still hard. Especially when YOU want to keep it and they are trying you to give it up. But remember everything is your decission and noone elses! Just cuz you are young doesnt mean your mom going to be a good mom. BF and I ended up getting married and now have 3 wonderful children! Good luck hon! if you ever need anyone to talk to you can always send me a email! I may not be 16 (im 25) but i have been there before!

Answer 10

this is a hard one especialy if your parents are the way you say they are have you tried talking to one of your other relatives who might understand better! they may be able to be there when you tell then to help defuse the situation. your parents might be angry shocked and upset atfirst but they generaly come round in the end if your with the father and he is going to stick by you then it might not be that bad.are you planning on keeping it because if you are then when you do tell them dont let them change your mind but make sure you know what you want to do first before you say anything to them. also you are quite young and you do realise your life will change dramatically if you do decide to keep it so please make sure you know what you want to do before you say anything hope this helps in any way .