dont like mums boy friend?

Question

i dont like my mums boyfriend at all actuley. he anoys me so much i want to kill myself he shouts at me when i need mum to help me with the vidio thing, he comes over tuesday,thersday,saterday and sunday i hardley get my mum to myself hes took over my dog my cats my hamster i sware if i cross the line i blame him. my mum knows i dont like him and she just acts as if nothing happening i hate Cwp what should i do need help please

Answer 1

You sound like a whining child. Grow up ..no wonder he doesn't like you.

Answer 2

You need to sit your mum down n tell her exactly what bothers you about him. Do it in a mature way so not to get her back up by acting like a child. You could even get her boyfriend involved and try n resolve it between the three of you. Thing is though there will probably be some compromise involved. This is where the maturity factor will come in. Your mum can't keep on pretending nothing is happening bcoz in the end something's got to give!! Give it a try chicks good luck x x x

Answer 3

You're not going to like everyone your mother dates but he isn't the problem though, your mother is. You need to talk to her and let her know how you feel about this guy and what he does to you, then she can set boundaries, rules, ask him to show you more respect and set special time aside for you. You must also respect him because he won't respect you unless you respect him.
He might not know what the rules are in your house and unless your mom tells him the problem will continue. If you should decide to talk to her about it though, I'd suggest that you be calm, respectful and don't whine while trying to make your point across. If that doesn't work then just confront him or move in with another relative.

Answer 4

If yer mum isn't listening ...and you're going out of your mind when he's around....I would suggest staying away from him as much as possible and seek counselling to help you deal with this . You will freak out (and not in a good way) if you do nothing. Talk with someone (guidance teacher/best friend/another family member...but don't hold it in. I can only imagine the "hell" you must feel when he comes around. Hopefully yer mum sees what you're seeing and kicks him to the curb., but until then...seek counselling and stay away from him*
GOODLUCK*

Answer 5

it sounds like you have a major communication problem. Try to think about the real reason you don't like him, it's because he is taking your mum's attention away from you. Either try to stay away when he's at your house or you could try talking to him to see why your mum likes him. Who knows, you may find you have things in common, apart from your mum, after all!

Answer 6

hey i know you're very young. You may not get it, but you'll be a grown up soon, you'll have a bf and your mom will hate him too. So grin and bare it. Pray they get split up, but if not you can just wait. Pay back is a bit**! You will be on your own soon. And your mother will not be the most important thing in your life. Right now focus on your education.

Answer 7

You are sayin that your mother knows you don't like him then just simply ask your mom that what's the matter?Why isn't she doing anything?Also ask ur mom if she really likes her bf,if she does go and get some counselling otherwise make a way to dump him or to ignore him!

Answer 8

I think you should talk to him and all and tell her how you feel and make some time for her but if he is good for her then let them be to gether andall i mean i would ask her for less time at first for youand then you can have a specil day for you two may be you can go off with him aand all too it is up to you.

Answer 9

maybe you should sit down and talk to your mother. have you told her why you don't like her boyfriend? if that doesn't work, then maybe you should just try your best not to have anything to do with him. try to stay away from him as much as possible. maybe you should try letting another adult know how he treats you and then they may try to talk to your mom for you. still if nothing happens then maybe you should try being mad at mum, and see how that works.

Answer 10

take him to bed film it then show ur mum the film she be sure to dump him so u & mum b ok again after couple argues

Answer 11

sweetie i know what u mean, my mom kicked me out of her house at 16 because of her boyfriend.the best anwser i came up with was talkin to my couselors. bc my mom didnt listen, and is still to this day with him.so i hope everything works out for you.