I've dreamt about this guy for ages, he's in my form class, i was once in his top 5, then top! He goes for the pretty populars...i write pages about him every night in my diary, i know its a silly highschool girlie thing to do! PLEASE NO HORRIBLE COMMENTS!! I've been asked out by many guys, and told im really pretty by several guys and girls...but me and him like eachother, he doesn't know how bad i like him, and he's taken me off his list...i feel rejected and like im not good enough! What do i have to do??!!
2007-01-22 04:23:07 · 15 answers · asked by CompleteCreation90 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to get him on his own and explain how you feel about him, it'll be much better if you get it all out in the open, believe me, i've bottled stuff like that up before and it's never the right thing to do.
2007-01-22 04:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jayne G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not silly at all. You obviously really like him. People that think it's silly have not experienced or are incapable of love. Just bite the bullet and ask him why you are no longer on the list. Tell him he's at the top of yours and always has been. You might want to casually drop into the conversation that you are always being asked out but don't like the guys asking. Hopefully this will encourage him! Give him lots of eye contact and act flirty!
2007-01-22 12:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never think that you're not good enough! I don't quite get what the list is but whatever it is, it's something you guys do in high school, no offence or anything, but I wouldn't take it seriously, its just a way to keep who's the latest kool for whatever reason or something to that effect. I'm in sixth and I can assure you, things like that don't mean anything. KK, now,you and this guy like each other right, so talk to him, be one of his pretty girl friends that he can be good friends with for real. Talk to him bout stuff you don't really talk about a lot, and be his shoulder that he can talk to, you'd be amazed, be there for him and he will come to you, guys are surprisingly sensitive no matter what they put out there. Then let him fall in love with you're personality, he already knows you're pretty. Don't take this list anymore seriously then you would if it was about who'd make the best bread (one guy in my school really did make one of those, don't ask me why). This worked for me, it will you. Good luck hun
xx
2007-01-22 13:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure we've all gone through something like this but, you know, talking is always the first thing people have to do to get to know each other better. Keep his attention but don't be pushy.
Forget lists. If he asks about lists - tell him that you don't do such things.
Only then may something work and don't get too upset if it doesn't. At the end of the day you may not like him that much at all.
And hold that head up high. You've got a lot going for you.
2007-01-22 12:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, he has a LIST? The guy has a LIST? And you're asking why YOU'RE not good enough? Hun, HE'S not good enough. No decent guy makes lists of his favourite girls... much less publicises it!
You're better off without him, really. Seriously, if you really like him, ask him out. Otherwise question if he's really that great.
2007-01-22 12:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by Lyra B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he have a list? Seems a strange way to pick a girlfriend, either he likes you or not. He doesn't sound like he's worth wasting your time over. Either ask him out or forget him, plenty of others waiting to meet you. Best of luck!
2007-01-22 12:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by mary b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to pursue him in some way or make yourself known to him.Just by reusing this letter is sounds like he not really rejecting you your just another pretty face in the crowd and if you really do like him you will go to him or try to get around him so he will at least see or acknowledge you.
2007-01-22 12:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by Chris R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ever feel that your not good enough because it would be his lose because he is the one making the choice and you would be better off moving on and finding someone who feels the same way about you as you do for them
2007-01-22 12:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by Tazy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't you think you ought to not get stressed out by guys.. just go out and have fun.. plenty of time to stress out when you have kids husband and household to worry about!
2007-01-22 13:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key young lady.What's this B.S. that you're not good enough?I think it's the other way around,be proud of who & what you are.Don't see defeat in yourself,SEE VICTORY.Besides it would be HIS LOSS RIGHT?
2007-01-22 12:36:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋