He's been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer that's spread to his liver the prognosis is very grim but he's playing the cards that God dealt him very well, I just feel that there maybe some organisatons out there that may make things a little easier. is there?
2007-01-22 04:17:10 · 16 answers · asked by sanders of the river 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
Firstly, may I say I am so very sorry and bless you for being such a good friend. There should be support available through the hospital...Macmillan nurses or Marie Curie nurses, local hospices will have information on groups etc and district nurses are good support. My dad had cancer and his prognosis was 'a year if you are lucky' so kinda know where you are all at right now. I don't know if you are interested but I had amazing support on line from www.cancerbacup.co.uk which is availble world wide....I had support, advice and understanding from a cancer nurse during dads illness and after he had passed....it was a godsend. There are so many organisations and groups that can help.....ask at the hospital or cancerbacup will help. the best support your friend will get will be from friends like you and family....its hard...devastating but you need to carry each other through this ordeal. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your friend and his family. If you want to chat more...please feel free to email me....stay strong xxxxx
2007-01-23 01:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by widow_purple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not often pancreatic patients get admitted into NHS hospices, but the MacMillan teams will visit him at home. Cancer bacup is a good organisation for talking to about things. Speak to support groups for pancreatic Ca patients and share experiences may help.
2007-01-22 10:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
initially, do not pay interest to all of us who can provide a time line on your existence expectancy. docs base stats on cumulative circumstances, lumping in everybody with the ailment you've. that contains age, state of well being and all. you're someone and are unique on your own type. i become advised 2-4 months without treatment, perchance one 3 hundred and sixty 5 days with 6 rounds of chemo. I did the 6 rounds notwithstanding the chemo did not help me in any respect. i have not had any difficulty-free treatment for the previous 15 months except for self-treatment with supplementations and eating routine. So I actually have properly previous the diagnosis they gave me. Get your affairs so as, I were given each and every thing executed once i might want to so i might want to concentration on healing. you won't be able to heal once you've various rigidity. Having a diagnosis which contain that is sufficient rigidity without including to it. once that is finished do not provide it yet another concept. in spite of everything that's dealt with, now is the time to do your learn into your ailment. Weed out what received't artwork, and learn what you experience would help you. do not roll over and play lifeless merely cuz some healthcare specialist says so.
2016-12-02 21:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear about this. It really puts things in perspective.
I'm pretty sure that the best thing for him is to rally his friends and family round to support him which Im sure they are anyway.
Also, to be completely honest just treat him normally. I'm sure the last thing he wants is to be treated like a 'victim'. The next few months are going to be tough for you all, make them those to remember and do as he wants. Although I'm not religious myself, I think that in times like this whatever gets people through the night they should do. Ask him what he wants and help him get it
Good luck xxxx
2007-01-22 08:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by LADY__LUCK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pancreatic cancer is very difficult to diagnose as often by the time it is discovered the cancer has spread to other parts of the body. the hospital should have referred him to the macmillan nurse and palliative care consultant as a routine procedure. they offer a wealth of support both emotionally and physically. they stay in close contact with the patient and monitor needs as the disease progresses. they can also provide support or refer to other agencies to help friends and family of the patient if needed. i wish your friend all the best at this difficult time.
2007-01-22 04:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
macmillan nurses are very good also the district nurses can offer support and arrange the loan of equipment. the hospital who diagnosed him should be able to supply a list of the support thats available in your area.
2007-01-22 04:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by puzzled? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get ahold of your local Hospice organization. They will do their very best to make your friend comfortable during this terrifying time. they not only offer medical services but they will also offer counseling to both him and his family, they will also help him to prioritize during this difficult time. Hospice is a God send.
2007-01-22 04:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by Sara G 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear your news, unfortunately prayers don't cure cancer but they do help to deal with the circumstances.
Wasn't he referred to McMillan, or the local cancer support group? Ask to look through the papers given to him at the hospital, in there, it should be the local support group, the religious support group etc... Good luck to you both.
2007-01-22 05:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by damari_8 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I would find a very good alternative doctor who can offer some
treatments that may work well alongside medication being taken
at this time,from your friends doctor.McMillan nurses associated with hospitals/doctors surgery may also be contacted.
2007-01-22 04:29:59 · answer #9 · answered by mr.bigz 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
find you a cancer support group like wings of an angel they can help you and good luck
2007-01-22 23:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by mountainchowpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋