2007-01-22 04:04:36 · 14 answers · asked by Lulu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can answer that in to words for you dear.
control
Insecurity
I have been married for 22 yrs & hubby dont let me have friends because men-will only want in my pants & women will only wanna try to get me to cheat on him.
You say he is your b/f not hubby? RUN while you can.
2007-01-22 04:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well yes bars are a pick up place, but he should not demand you from not going, if he is then he is insecure or jealous and either you can decide if you need that or just simply tell him he has to trust you and you are solely going to the bar to hang out with your friends, if it's not a girl's night out then invite him along or invite him at least once to show him you're just out to have fun with your friends.
2007-01-22 12:11:08 · answer #2 · answered by justwondering 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need time w/ your friends,everybody does!They are not pick up places,it a place where you go to have a good time w/ your girls.Invite your man to come along if you would like,though you really shouldn't have to,even though you are in a relationship you need your own free time,as does he!
2007-01-22 12:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's a bit extreme. He should learn to trust you. Explain to him that just like when he goes out with his buddies, someone is always the 'wing man' - doing reconnaissance, giving honest opinions, testing the atmosphere, providing moral support. Just let him know that you're just helping your friends. :-)
2007-01-22 12:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by YSIC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend to get a life, unless you've given him a reason to think that you're unfaithful he should trust you. Good Luck, if he's this jealous it might only get worse
2007-01-22 12:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by fl_lopez 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
does he have a reason not to trust you? cause if there isn't one then he shouldn't stop being up tight and just let you go. its always good to get alittle time away from each other
2007-01-22 12:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by daniel a 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if your in a relationship bars are a no no, they cause alot of problems, my advice stay home if your happy with your guy you dont need to go to bars, they just cause drama
2007-01-22 12:13:28 · answer #7 · answered by sassy girl 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well if he doesn't trust you completely then there is a problem in your relationship you have to trust eachother and be committed.
2007-01-22 12:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by scottsmith20 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him that you behave your self and dont worry about it. You should be able to go where ever you want to go and he should have nothing to say about it.
2007-01-22 12:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by Amberlyn4 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh please. What next your can't go to the supermarket becaus they have single nights. He needs to get a grip and trust you. :-)
2007-01-22 12:07:39 · answer #10 · answered by maidmaz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋