Ok, so I was kinda seeing this girl I go to school with. We went out a couple of times, texted each other all the time etc,etc. I thought it was going pretty well, and she seemed to be loving it too, always wanting to meet up at the cinema and chat online, when all of a sudden she stopped texting me. She then started flirting madly with my mate, infront of me, and simply just ignored me. I then text' her asking what was going on and she replied that she didnt want a relationship.
The next week I was chatting to one of her mates, and she came over and said "he's taken". I am also constantly finding her staring at me when we are in the pub. She also keeps messaging me on msn, and whenever i ask "how r u" she always tells me she's having "men trouble"... not really sure what the hell is going on... also to top it all off she recently made her msn picture one of her and her mate that i was trying it on with when she said "he's taken"... cruel mind games or WHAT!!???!!!
Please help :)
2007-01-22 04:01:17 · 24 answers · asked by jon t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I can say that I have been there, here's basically whats going on. Yes she likes the games, strives on them. You gave chase to her and that in turn made it no fun for her. Later on she sees you with another young lady, jealousy kicks in and she lays claim to you, thus ruining your chances with her. She may not want a relationship, she may, only she can determine that. basically shes keeping you on a string that way whenever she gets lonely or gets dumped she can reel you back in. My advice tell her "listen, I want a relationship (If you do) If you want a relationship with me tell me otherwise stopwating my time" That is the only advice I can give good luck in your endeavor.
2007-01-28 19:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by mabbdog00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 02:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing both of you are a little young.
she is a little confused. It would be a bad idea to get together with her if you are looking for a vaguely serious relationship. Sheis just enjoying the whole flirt/come-on-strong/retreat exercise that most GIRLS enjoy when they are in their mid-late teens.
If i were you i would just enjoy flirting with her, but i would seek someone else out if you want a proper r'ship
2007-01-22 04:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by Chimera's Song 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like shes enjoying messing you around. You dont need head games like this. If I was you Id tell her where to go and get on with your life and find someone new who wont fcuk you round like that. Cut all contact with her and if she tries the 'he's taken' thing again, explain to whoever youre talking to that shes some girl who wont leave you alone. Steer clear of her and her mates as much as you can
2007-01-22 04:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by fallenangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, there are 2 answers to her problem
1. she is playing you and just wants to ruin your life. In that case get over her! she just likes your mate probaly and she may be cheating. If you disagree with this then check out the next answer
2. she loves you and just thinks that you don't want to go out with her. In this case she may just be showing off when she flirts with your mate. Also it tells us that she does not want you to go out with someone else. Because she stopped you from flirting with her mate
2007-01-26 05:12:12 · answer #5 · answered by x cutie x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all the chasing that excites her then when she has got what she wants... move on to the next challenge though as to why she is not allowing you to move one that it just crap she doesnt want to see you trying it on with other grils esp her mate. steer clear of her mate she only going to confuse you more that you already are. you'll never get into a female mind and dont try you'll go insane..trust me im female a wonder myself.
2007-01-26 08:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by danielle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl just loves to flirt -she's probably doing it with others! Or she's maybe playing hot-and-cold game so you should flirt with her too.If you want a real relationship-run away from her.she's not a relationship tipe!
2007-01-22 05:27:51 · answer #7 · answered by glad to help :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing games with you duckie! Trying to keep you dangling on a string so you wont "be taken" anywhere else.Tell her youve found a lovely girl who respects and adores you and say byebye to her and her mind games.
2007-01-26 09:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by bevalou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, to be honest get rid son she doesnt sound very nice at all, your only young u want to be enjoying yourself not worrying wot the heck is going on, tell her u want to be friends but nothing else then move on find someone better that will treat u nice, good luck xx
2007-01-28 07:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by whitleylass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes all over the place-doesnt know what she wants or how to get or keep it-let her grow up a bit before reconsidering her.
2007-01-22 04:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by mr.bigz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋