Hi! I'm a good boy. Becoz I think so.
I nature is good. My thinking is good. My behaviour is good.
But I have got a very weird habbit. Since many years I have developed a habbit of neglecting people. I mean to say not paying much attention to people, even the one's whom I know. I really had very bad experiences of this. I have tried a lot to get rid of this habbit. But it's in vain.
Can u help me to get rid of this problem?
2007-01-22 03:00:58 · 9 answers · asked by john s 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Maybe the key word here is "habit." Any habit takes conscious effort to overcome. Try this: each day when you get up, make a list of people you know you will come in contact with. Then make yourself list 3 questions you will use to interact with them. At the end of the day list what their response to you was and how you responded. Also write down what you learned about them that day in random interactions. If you know you have a "written assignment" you will eventually learn to pay attention.
2007-01-29 12:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by wd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did anyone said you that you are a bad boy?
No? Yes I know. People generally dont tell you that you are a bad boy.
The only way to WIN peoples heart is to help them...
Try this:
a. People whoever you first meet try to neglect him/her, because
this is what all of your personality, actually this is a good
personalilty.
b. Search any weak point of your recent stranger you met
c. Wait for a chance, that is, when the stranger really needs any
help. Then close him/her, directly offer him/her a help. you
can at least consolute them this time and insist of trying to
help.
d. Dont worry, it is not required to help him/her really rather it is
diserved by those help seekers that at least you would be with
them till their danger stays.
e. This way, once you will amazingly discover that you actually
help them a lot!!! Because, Allah said, Only he can help, not you. You
just have to stay beside the people who really needs help.
f. Though Allah helps the dangered people, he will reward you
also. Allah will then give you a heart from the help seekers only
for you. This is what is called WINing a heart
Thanks Buddy
2007-01-27 02:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by Mostanser Billah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may not be a problem.
People need time to themselves sometimes. When they talk to people again they often bring back some rich perception from their time of quiet, solitary reflection.
2007-01-29 06:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by Sciman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a problem....you are just being a typical boy who will turn into a typical man...ignornance! chill, don't worry about it, it is good that you know that you have this 'bad habit' that means, you will slowly get out of this and be a good typical man.
2007-01-26 23:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by Angel's Smile 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God loves the people of the world. Get connected with God and you will have love for people too. Best wishes.
In the Beginning God created heavens and earth.
God gives us air to breathe and sunshine to enjoy.
God gives us water to drink and food to eat.
God gives us a wonderful body and sound mind, to live.
God loves us, and we are precious to Him.
Son of God died on the Cross to save us from condemnation.
Jesus’ love is boundless and everlasting.
We have the hope of Heaven through Jesus.
Life therefore has fantastic and glorious future!
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2007-01-22 11:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by tmthyh 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hey Sweet just talk to your doc and get some professional advice on this theres also alot of excellent meds to help you your JUST FINE and understanding this is a problem for you is the big 1st step my best to you sandy
2007-01-22 11:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is an excellent book by Dr Phil called SELF MATTERS. Get it, read it, and do what it suggests.
2007-01-26 15:06:21 · answer #7 · answered by charliehc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a doctor.
2007-01-26 09:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by caribbeanmeme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay o see a therapist it will really help you and doesnt make you weird in anyway
2007-01-28 01:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by theguru 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋