I live with my step-father only(dead bio parents).A year ago,when I was 13,I made something bad and my step-father was mad at me.He didnt punish or spank me.He raped me.It was the worst thing ever happened to me.I was sooo embarrased and I could tell anyone.When I found I was pregnant he didnt let me continue school.Locked me in my room and didnt let me use phone and computer.9 months later I gave birth(at home - he didnt let me go to hospital and we haven't neighbours who could hear my screaming) to my son.I had already forgiven him for the raping and he apologized.We kept the baby with me.3 months later(last week) he was mad again because the baby was crying.He raped me again and this time it was horrible.I feel like a doormat.He lets me use computer but no phone and Im locked in my room(I cant run from the window).I looked for online police or something but didnt find.If I call the police they will take me to orphanage and SEPARATE me and my son who I LOVE.What can I do?I'm 14
2007-01-22 02:31:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I don't buy any of this.
2007-01-22 02:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't he go to work ?? What about when you take the baby to the doctor for a check up, locked in your room, how can you take care of a baby locked in your room ?? ..HUUMM I hope to God you are not lying. I will pray for you either way.
The state keeps siblings together. You need to protect yourself and your baby. He will eventually hurt your son and that baby
is your responsibility to protect. So do what ever you have to ..run like hell to a neighbors house or hospital.
***I AM SURE IF YOU GIVE SOMEONE HERE YOUR FULL NAME AND ADDRESS, SOMEONE WILL CALL THE POLICE FOR YOU. You have done the right thing by posting here. As you can see plenty of us want to help you.
2007-01-22 02:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by whatelsewhatever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go online and search for your local social service department. Email them and have them help you. More than likely they will not separate you and the child.. they will try to put you together.. the only time they usually separate mother and child is if you were abusing the child.. you need help.. NOW! You can also download Skype . it is free and it is a way to talk on the phone without the phone.. you talk through your computer.. you can call the police that way... you will probably have to use their phone number and not 911... just look up the number for your local police dept... get help NOW!
2007-01-22 02:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by luvtheMarines! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to someone you trust or to the police. You and your child are a victim here and what he is doing is a crime. The situation will only get worse and there is no telling what he is capable of doing to that child. Get out now!!!! There are plenty of safe places for the both or you and you will not be seperated from your baby. Do something now. You can contact your local United Way or plenty of other agencies.
2007-01-22 02:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by parrothead2371 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have friends who you can e-mail, tell their parents and they will tell the police. But, you might, might not be separated from your son, i dont know. It's a hard decision but you cant let him do this this to you! You have to get out!He will start being abusive and you! Get out, a beautiful girl like you doesn't diserve this! GET OUT! He's gonna end up hurting your son and even though it breaks my heart to say this, if they do take away your son he's better off being with someone who isn't your step father! omg im crying! I went to google and found:
www.911.com
Hunni go to it right away! Do whats best for your son.
e-mail me and tell me how it goes
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(i just now activated this acount for you only i refuse to give out my real e-mail adress but make sure to tell me what happens)
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2007-01-22 04:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by Taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell someone ASAP!! don't let ur step-dad tell you that if you leave, the gov't will take your son b/c that IS A LIE!! bottom line, you need to get out of there. run away to a relative's house or a friend or even a neighbor while he's asleep. but you absolutely cannot stay in that house for another minute. you are putting your life (and your beautiful baby boy's life) in SERIOUS danger. rape is a crime of anger, not passion and it will escalate and things WILL get worse. he will start to get physically abusive and that's not something that you want your son to be exposed to. you will probably have to live with another relative or someone close to you for the next couple of years but they have no reason to separate you from your son. just b/c you are young does not mean they are going to take him away from you. you have done nothing wrong and i think you're very brave for trying to reach out to someone. if you need to, please email me and i can call the authorites or someone for you. i am worried for you, PLEASE contact me ASAP!! chingona1027@yahoo.com
2007-01-22 02:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by chingona1027 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to google search and put in "police (your city or township) and the state you live in area". (Like this:Police in the Greensboro, NC area) It will bring up several sites including the state police or patrol. Look the site over for a "contact us". click on it and send them your email address, home address, etc. and what your situation is. If this doesn't help, contact me @ goldwang1955@yahoo.com and I will contact the FBI and make them aware of what's going on and try to get you some help, ok.
2007-01-22 02:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by golden rider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police, they can do DNA to prove this.
He is obviously a danger to you and other young girls. Please do this for yourself and your son. You need to run away to a shelter or at the very least talk to someone you trust.
There are young mother and baby units and as he is your son it is in both your best intetests to be together.
I was raped at 15 and it haunted me for years; without removing yourself from this situation you will never be able to overcome this and get your life back.
Please, please try and get away.
Good luck honey, I'll be thinking of you.xx
2007-01-22 03:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by Me! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need help. You need to get out of there. That is such a shame that someone would take advantage of another human being like that. I hope someone that reads this can follow through and find out where you live and come and get you. I think that you first need to think about yourself. Whatever happens, but you need to get out of the environment you are in. Your step dad is going to prison when the authorities find out what he did to you.
2007-01-22 02:39:18 · answer #9 · answered by supersweetfungal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lets you use the computer but not the phone? That doesn't make any sense. Is anyone actually buying this?
2007-01-22 02:45:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is true you need to get help asap. email afriend or social services or maybe somebody here can get personly involded in helping you, dont worry about loosing your son, you need serious help like now. worry about your son later, but just get help
2007-01-22 02:42:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋