There's this boy i like but he is dating my good friend, but they are always on and off, he is a good friend of mine so he sometimes tells me how irritating and mean she can be, adn that he likes me do i ask him out?
2007-01-22 01:52:10 · 14 answers · asked by stargirl125 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's this boy i like but he is dating my good friend, but they are always on and off, he is a good friend of mine so he sometimes tells me how irritating and mean she can be, and that he likes me do i ask him out?
He also found out she was cheating on him
2007-01-23 00:42:23 · update #1
There's this boy i like but he is dating my good friend, but they are always on and off, he is a good friend of mine so he sometimes tells me how irritating and mean she can be, and that he likes me do i ask him out?
He also found out she was cheating on him
2007-01-23 00:42:35 · update #2
If you want to keep your good friend as a friend then absolutely do not ask him out!!! Boy friends will come and go, but a true friend is hard to find. Consider very carefully if this is worth losing a friend over.
2007-01-22 01:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by Lulamilu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there
i can understand how you feel and all.But you mentioned he's dating your GOOD friend.Isn't there some kind of limit to what u and ur "good" friend share?
I dont think she'll be happy to find out you want 2 come between them because she must like him 2 keep goin back to him. Also contrary to what this lad is saying,He has some feelings 4 her to keep takin her back.
He knows u both are friends and yet gossips about her to you???????????? That is not a very cool thing to do. I mean he's her boyfriend so he can tell her about her flaws in a nice way.
Besides we all have flaws. Wot makes you think he won't do the same thing to you.
This lad seems pretty confused to me first about not bein very stable in his relationship and second for not knowin if he likes you or your mate.
I think you should take a chill pill on this guy 4 a while and let him sort himself out i also think u shud talk to ur friend about her mean and irritating character flaws.
In the mean time y dont u head to d mall, club or wherever you hang out with ur mates and who knows you might meet the actual guy of your dreams and he wont be confused!Lol
Just have fun wotever u do.
Good luck
2007-01-22 10:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by shizer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend would be hurt if she found out that you are going out with this guy. Or not? If you want to keep both friendships, wait untill he breaks up with her and she gets over him a bit to consider dating him.
Have you considered another thing: he knows you are a friend of hers, he goes out with her and now he wants to date you too. Is this honest/acceptable ?
Ask yourself which of the two is a true friend and stick to that person. Time will show what kind of person the other is and you can always change your mind later. friendship like other relationships should to be tested. Time and attention to details are a good test. Be kind, you will have less to be sorry for - if the person is not worth your investment (time, affection) kindness helps one let go fastest.
Good luck!
2007-01-22 10:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you never take someone else's boy/girlfriend. Let their relationship run its course. I would not ask him out if he's still dating your friend. However, the next time he complains about her to you, tell him that you like him, but you have loyalty to your friend also. Tell him you would like to go out with him as a friend, but you will not go any further than friendship while he is in a relationship. I would also think you do not want to become known in your circle of acquaintances as someone the other females have to worry about, if you understand what I mean by that.
2007-01-22 10:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by David M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its good idea to ask him right away. Since he is still dating with your good friend. Do you think its good idea to hurt your good friend's feeling if you ask him out? Why don't you back off and let them deal with it. I am sure you will find a better guy that has no problem and you will be happy. Also think about it, if you still want him, you will be get a lot of problems and even worst, drama. You don't want that, right? You don't have to listen what he said bad things about your good friend, it kind of stab her back with you.
2007-01-22 09:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! your going to loose a friend over a guy! Even though u think hes nice and he's your friend hes going to find another girl and leave u without a guy and a good friend. If ur a good friend to ur good friend leave them alone to handle there problems.
2007-01-22 09:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by fifi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um no she is YUR FRIEND and if hes always on and off with her he will do the ame to u!!! u cant call yurself a friend if yur crushin and talking to her man !!!! let them do there thing and u get yur own because thas not right!!!!!! he sounds immature and u need somone better LEAVE HIM ALONE
2007-01-22 10:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by *(¯`ξŔ1₭4´¯) Ł4 (¯`₮Ř4V1ξ§4´¯)* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its a good friend then dont, friends are more important than a BF.
2007-01-22 09:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by sorce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are there any other boys in your town? Find one that's available...that your friend hasn't been involved with. Plain and simple, huh?
2007-01-22 09:58:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not until they are completely done and over with and if she gives her blessing. Friends don't do that to friends.
2007-01-22 09:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋