How can I make my long distance realtionship work?

Question

We hardly ever see or talk to each other, and when we do we are hardly ever alone. I really want to make this work. I don't know if he's cheating on me or not.

Answer 1

you both must have trust --- does he worry that you are cheating?? or does he trust you??? --- i am in a very long distance relationship and i trust my lady totally and would never cheat on her in deed or thought ---- if you are having problems meeting then perhaps you need to change that make it so you do have time alone

best wishes to you both

Answer 2

i'm in a long distance relationship myself for almost two years now. he comes back every 3 months for a while then leaves again. he'll come back for good in june now and i'm very excited.
what you have to do is download skype and talk to each other online, get yourself a webcam and ask him to do the same, you'll be able to hear each other voices and see each other. if you two have work to do just have the other one on the call and seeing each other through the webcam, even though the other might be working it's good to know he's there. and you two really need to love each other and learn to trust one another for the relationship to work. it's very difficult when you are apart because you don't see where he is, with whom he is or what he's up to. so you really need to trust him otherwise you'll be always paranoic. learn to trust him, hopefully he's trustworthy and won't give you any reasons for you to think otherwise.

good luck :)