What would you do if your boyfriend is being controing?? Not hitting but he tells you to tell him where you're going, who you're talking to, and stoping talking to you ex boyfriend??????
2007-01-22 01:44:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My husband did this to me, we are getting ready to get a divorce.
You cant make it work with someone who doesnt trust you, who wants to control your everything.
Sit down and talk to him
Good luck
2007-01-22 01:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending how you really feel I would comunitcate the issue to him, the x-boyfriend thing I kinda understand...not that I'm taking sides, but the other things I would asked him to give your personal space...tell him how you feel that he is trying to control you, you have to explain to him that you had a personal life before him and that he has to understand how you feel, your taking time to explain the issue with him so he can understand, that should let him know that you care enough not to lose him....
2007-01-22 09:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that he needs to calm down and stop being so controlling because it's not cool for him to act like that and let him know that I'm old enough to make my own decisions. And tell him that he doesn't see me trying to tell him what to do so he shouldn't try to tell me what to do and if things don't get better I would leave him before things starts getting worst and he tries to hit you.
2007-01-22 09:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lady T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off i wouldnt stillbe talking to my ex just out of respect for my current bf. anyways i would tell him that unless hes going to tell me where hes going and who hes talking to then im not sayn anything because im a grown person just like he is and i deserve respect. He's not ur father so dont pay it any attention
2007-01-22 10:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by gurl_balla14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would walk away because he is going to get worse. What if he decides to start hitting you. Any guy who is controlling is being immature.
2007-01-22 09:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just leave? Things probably won't change much.
2007-01-22 09:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by sixmillionways 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING
2007-01-22 09:47:01 · answer #7 · answered by OMG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋