How to be more positive , happy and attract love?

Question

I realised I have too much negative energy that if drained all my relationships that they left me? I dont want to continue to be this way anymore. What should I do to be better. I am also feeling very sad now that my recent relationship failed and she has found another ...

Answer 1

Find time in the day to sit quietly and think about ur life. Look at what's good in it and work on it. Don't get involved in another relationship until you feel emotionaly and physically sure that you can handle it and feel good about it. Sure, breaking up's rough but you've got to move on and put it behind you as experience. You sound like a nice person and someone who deserves you should find you soon.

Answer 2

80% of humanity, the religious folks, don't need to ask the meaning of life, the church tells them....the supernatural explanation. But the rest of us can't swallow religious dogma, because there's no evidence. Nobody can prove that there life after death, that people are tortured or rewarded after life or that there's invisible spirits running around. I've come to two conclusions recently: 1. Life has no meaning 2. Life has a million meanings. First, there's a certainty that death and annihilation awaits not only you, but the Earth in general. It's an astonomical certainty that our sun will supernova and leave the earth a burnt crisp, not to mention all the other extinction level events around the corner. Second, the million things that give us meaning are the pleasurable experiences we can conjure up during the short period we are here on the earth, in the form of the relationships we have with our kids and other people, and the 'housekeeping' types of purposes. What i mean by that are the curing disease, ending hunger, improving literacy, reducing crime, preventing war, helping other kinds of things. So the bottom line is, we only have a temporary meaning to life, to reduce pain and increase pleasure, other than that everything is lost to oblivion. To be or not to be? "To be" is temporary and "not to be" is inevitable.....

Answer 3

no clue really

I can tell you that its really ok to be sad and lonely sometimes.
Its totally better than pretending everything is great when it isn't. SOmetimes just stew in it till it works its way out.

If you van find good friends and lovers to help you who really care about you, thats best. If not , learn how to deal with it yourself.

If you are lucky enough to find somebody who loves you totally, then they might hole you till all that bad energy is gone. Men and women can do that for each other sometimes cuz bad female energy doesn't stick to males and vice versa.

Answer 4

Try to talk about more positive things, and always keep your conversations on the light side. It's okay to vent every now and then just try to keep it to a minimum. I sure there is someone out there that is just right for you.

Answer 5

Always look to the positive in situations. Oh crap you failed that test--at least you can study and do better on the next one. My car broke down--I'm lucky to have a car. My parents are bugging me--at least I have parents that love and support me. Too much optimism can be annoying, but any situation has a good side. Just concentrate on that, without distorting reality.

Answer 6

Theres alot of people that do the same...atleast you know the reasons why your relationships aren't working. Try figuring out why you have all this negative energy. Ball it all up and throw it away.

Answer 7

Put a smile on your handsome face, and portray that all day long. The next one you find, comfort her, be there for her, love her, believe in her, accept her, support her emotionally, sexually, and find someone who does the same for you.

Answer 8

you have to look for the one person who will make you happy. i felt the same way untill i met my current girlfriend and she has made me so happy. good luck.