Okay, a freind of mine is going through some major roadbumps in her relationship. And I would like honest opinions from those who have been in the game for a while.
It started this past Thursday night when I met her. Her boyfreind listened to her backstabbing roommates that she had been talking **** about him. He went ahead and changed his online personal profile to where my freind didn't appear like his girlfreind anymore. When she found out about it, she was torn apart. She spent all night trying to get some answers out of him but he was shut tight.
As I spent more time with her, she has expressed how much she doesn't want to be without him. But I'd like to also add some details about the boyfreind. He is 21 and his mother pays his phone bill, credit card bills and tells him how to live. This has included his mom telling him that he shouldn't be with her. From what I gather, they have been together for almost 1 month now, and he seems to be initiating the breakup.
2007-01-22 01:02:51 · 5 answers · asked by coldblade666 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A few more details.
She has given him 3 deep comments on his personal page, and he accepted only the one that means the most to her.
And one last thing, she begged him that they should both sit down together and talk things out, without distractions. She wants to work it out so much, but he seems to not care or give a crap about anything she says.
I'm frustrated with their status because it hurts me to see her like this. Why does he seem not to care and keeps ignoring her even though she wants to cling on?
2007-01-22 01:21:56 · update #1
- hunter2 - I see what you're saying, and she has asked for my honest opinions. I have given them and I honestly don't want to see him hurting her anymore. I've been there for her almost every step of the way so far, but I don't want to involve myself in her issues. I know it's not my place but I want her to be happy. I'm confused.
2007-01-22 01:34:01 · update #2
Not too complicated. He's moving on and in just one month, she can't know if he's a big loss or not. Help your friend to move on. she needs to drop some of those ratty girlfriends too.
You be there for her now and maybe she will be there for you at some important time too.
Best of luck,
2007-01-22 01:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy like that once. It actually lasted like a year but only because I am way too nice for my own good. His mom would come over and do his laundry and clean his apartment. But when it came time for us to move in together because we thought we were ready she threw a fit. And then he tried to tell me what I could and could'nt do. That wasn't gonna fly!! So my advice to your friend is that she need to end this relationship. She might feel hurt but that's why she has good friends like you to help her feel better. It sounds like he wants to break up with her but he is taking the chicken way out!! She would be better off moving on with her life. He will always be a momma's boy and it won't get any better!
2007-01-22 09:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by Randi P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One month?? Pshhht! She should let him go. He's a cry baby mommas boy. If he's 21 then he should working and looking after his own bills. Also if he is going to believe this girls friends over her without even asking her about it then he is no good.
2007-01-22 09:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs to dump him. The boy can't function or think by himself.
2007-01-22 09:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
advice you friend to leave him alone and do something useful with her live. dont be ready for any one who does not care of u
2007-01-22 09:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jecs O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋