i have a bf and when were at parties no attention oon me and at school he hangs with my friends and acts like im not there
2007-01-22 00:57:14 · 17 answers · asked by urdirtylittlesecret 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, the first thing that stands out to me about your question is the fact that you are not satisfied. That's called settling, girl. Never settle. But let's give the guy a fair shake. You have to communicate your feelings to him. You know him better than anyone at this point. So you should know how to voice your discomfort to him so he will "get it". Know your boundaries and needs. If he doesn't meet your needs within a reasonable time frame AFTER he's been made aware of them, then you need to leave him. You are worth it!
2007-01-30 00:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by spiritual.rollercoaster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing that you are less than 18 years of age. You are still too young to really know what you want in a companion. If your so called bf is treating you as you claim, I don't think he is the guy for you. If you think he is then you have to ask yourself,"Do I feel better when I'm alone with him or do I feel really uncomfortable when we are in public?" Then weigh your emotions and determine how much time together you spend in each situation. If you feel that you spend more time with him in a public setting than you do a private setting, then it would seem logical that you feel uncomfortable more than your happy. Also consider how your relationship is being viewed by your peers. Do you want to have your peers laughing behind your back as they watch him disassociate himself from you when your at school?
2007-01-30 00:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by jlsmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the guy, he's wearing you like a badge to impress other people and to get at your friends. He's also a player, and probably had some what 10 other girlfriends before you, and probably has three sons and at least one STD. Not worth it. Get rid of the loser.
2007-01-22 01:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the 1st step is to talk, and enable her comprehend what the themes is and talk approximately it. i might tell her like look that's a controversy, you ought to have faith me, because of the fact if theres no have faith in a relationship, this might worsen than what it is now, then thats while the argueing comes into place. i might enable her comprehend like that grow to be your previous, it is your destiny. We been jointly for a whilst and that i wouldnt do something to wreck you. She desires to have self belief on your, and if she has a annoying time trusting you, why is she with you?
2016-10-07 13:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently girls require more attention than most guys. I just expect my girlfriend to respect me...she doesn't have to worship me 24/7. She's a girl "friend" not my personal possession, ya know? I think she should be free with her actions and do whatever comes natural to her...not always have to act to please me.
2007-01-22 01:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not so much about "trust issues" either you trust them or you dont if you get an uneasy feeling its for no reason that's your gut felling telling you something. if he's hanging out with everyone but you that show how much is interest in you he has (not much). me personally if i dont trust him i wont deal with him
2007-01-29 22:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by Honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boyfriend! He obvously doesnt like you as much as you thought
2007-01-29 16:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say Screw Him and find someone that is gonna pay attention to you. You deserve better then him!!!
2007-01-29 07:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by Fighting Irish Lass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you need to just go ahead and dump him, this relationship will never work out in the end.
2007-01-30 00:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing you, dump him. Take care Heather
2007-01-29 05:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋