She's telling people in chat that I'm stalking her. Actually what she said is, she has a 35 year old stalker going on 14. I only emailed her a few times then when she didn't respond, I stopped. Why is she telling people in a chat room that I'm stalking her? I use to go into this chat so some know me in ther and one of my friends told me what she said. I am so hurt. I've done nothing to her but treat her good and with respect. She's the Player, the User. My friend said that she was in there trying to get someone, anyone to go out with her. Like being desperate. What should I do? Should I confront her or what? Someone said I should turn it around and tell them she is stalking me. I want to report her but I don't know if they'll ban her from the chat network. Any suggestions?
2007-01-22 00:53:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore her. If you know it's not true who cares what other people think?
2007-01-22 01:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she wants attention and dramatizing everything to get it. If she is in the to meet a guy she can forget it, because she is only hurting herself with that kind of talk. What kind of guy would want to be involved with her if that is going on in her life?? Don't email her anymore, she obviously doesn't want to talk to u, and just ignore what she is doing. When people break up they say things that they think will hurt the other person to make themselves feel better, and to get people on their side. The people that truly know u will know they are all lies. When my x and I split up he went to everyone we knew and told unbelievable stories about me. (all of them lies), so it's not unusual that she is doing this. She wants to try to hurt u, but if u ignore it and don't give her that satisfaction then she will stop. You know the truth and that is all that matters. If someone from that chat room confronts u with all this stuff then u can stand up for yourself and tell the truth, but don't go any further than that. You be the bigger person and show her she can't hurt u anymore.
2007-01-22 01:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would strongly not go online if this is going on..shes trying to set you up and to me shes the one thats a stalker..just go out in the real world and leave the chats alone..trust me it will only get you in more trouble..ive had the same expierence with alot of women on here ..but now i leave the chatting alone and messenger...but yeah shes setting you up for a trap..dont email her dont go in chats....just ignore her and everyone on chat cause trsut me she can be anyone online setting you up..sorry u had a hard time with her but shes an internet black widow..alot of women and mostly young women do this to men online....sorry u going through hell......but take it from me it aint worth crying over.....thanks....
2007-01-22 00:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by blkmonster2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't care what other people think as long as you didn't do no harm and you know it then it doesn't really matter what the heck she says or makes up about you. Just pretend like she's not even there and just go about your business.
2007-01-22 00:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋